I have 3 children from a previous girlfriend and she moved to NY 4 years ago. I have been trying to see them and she refuses. Now she has no apartment and is running from DCF because she does not want to live with her grandma as she has been told to do. I want to seek custody but I live in Florida and they are in NY. How do I go about beginning the process? Do I seek a lawyer here in Florida or in NY? Will I have to go back and forth from FL to NY for court dates or is there some way of doing it from FL? Do I have a good chance of winning? I have an apt. and a job and she has no where to live and no job. Please any advice is needed since no one can find her or my children.