I have been working for a local hospital for 6 years. Over two years ago in February, I had to have sinus surgery to prevent recurrent sinus infections. Then, two years ago in May, I had routine gallbladder surgery after a three-day hospital stay for a gallbladder attack. I woke from the surgery with constant chronic pain. Over the past two years I have had numerous procedures and in March 2007 they finally found the cause of the pain. I was taken off work for a couple weeks prior to surgery and then returned to work two weeks after this extensive surgery feeling better than ever. However, because of the constant chronic pain, they had tried several long-acting pain medications to control the pain and the only one that worked without horrible side effects was methadone. Now that the pain is gone, I have been weaning off the medication. At first it was easy, but the lower the dose got, the worse the side effects got. I wake up every single night with aches and pains that feel like I have the flu or arthritis. My limbs jerk severely and I can't lie still. I wake up every morning vomiting and hurting from my head to my toes. Despite this, I have made it to work for at least 4 hours every day. The thing is, when these side effects start up again at work, I get a pins and needles feeling through my entire body and my hands go numb. I am a medical transcriptionist, so it is hard to type when you can't feel your hands.
Today I was called into my new supervisor's office under the guise of discussing the issues at hand and how much time I had left of my wean. When I got in there, I was ambushed by the manager, a human resources representative, and my supervisor. Despite being on FMLA and having numerous medical documents supporting my absences, I was informed that if I miss any day, if I am even one minute late for work, or if I don't make up time from scheduled doctor appointments, I will be terminated.
I thought FMLA protected you from termination due to long-term illnesses. I have no problem with coming to work after I am weaned off this horrible medicine, the thing I am upset about is that I am a single mother and with this new policy in effect, I can't pick him up from school if he gets sick or hurt and I can't wait with him until the babysitter gets there if he is ill.
All of their polices are very vague and no one ever told me that I was running out of FMLA. My former supervisor always said not to worry about it and take care of myself. I have never been given a verbal warning or had any idea of what was coming. In the six years I have worked there, I have had almost 100% quality at all times, way above average production, and I have really been a stellar employee except for having to miss work due to surgeries, procedures done under conscious sedation, and these horrible withdrawal effects.
The paper they gave me today informing me that I would be terminated if I violated any of these things was signed by all three of them, but I was not asked to sign it.
So my questions are--is that piece of paper valid if I haven't signed it. Should I sign it or should I try to get a stipulation put in regarding the health and well being of my son. Is there anything I can do under FMLA guidelines to be able to save my job in the event of an emergency. Would it help to have all the people I work for (doctors, nurses, etc) write a note on my behalf or have the providers that have treated me for the last two years write a letter on my behalf, with my permission of course, to try to help them understand what a difficult two years I have had. I am seriously in shock and at a loss for what to do. So many things can happen in six months, and I would hate to lose my job due to something as silly as being one minute late or having to take my son to urgent care for an acute illness. None of this seems right or fair.
I would appreciate any and all advice.
Julie