kbrown1212
New Member
I am not here to complain or get pitty. I want good advice on what to do. Here's what happened.
I am 22 years old. Been with my fiance since I was 19 - he had a ten month old boy at the time - the mother was unfit and took off and landed in jail many times. He has always called me mommy - and he is my son (though not biologically or adoptive).
Back in the end of April, my fiance's grandmother accused myself of child molestation on his son who i have raised for 4 years (4 1/2 now). Dyfs, attorneys, etc. cleared me and dropped the case. We had a horrible time going through DYFS investigations, etc. They even said horrible things about his father, my fiance. They are still harassing me through him... in addition to him. I would like it to stop and would like to seek money or action against them for the embarrassment, stress, health problems, job problems they put me though. I have severe anxiety/panic disorder and this uproar has hurt me (not as much as the kid though - he has been very upset/change of moods because of this). The crazy great grandmother is trying to get custody/visitation of him - take him away from his loving family. It stresses me every day for the last 4 months. I had severe health problems due to this and even landed in the hospital with a near nervous breakdown/ severe IBS/sever panic attack. I have evidence of all sorts - but I'm afraid it's not enough. I want to sue her - for defamation of character. there is nothing more life altering and heart sinking than seeing your name next to possible molester. Not a day has been the same since that. That will always be on record - I feel like they have destroyed my image - and that they should pay for days of work i missed due to the health problems and days we went to seek legal advice, etc. Mostly, they should pay for what they did to this 4 1/2 year old who does not deserve to see his parents at the police station and be asked horrible questions.
Please - any advice would be most helpful - i want the phone calls to stop - the threats to stop - and the slander, and libel to stop!
I am 22 years old. Been with my fiance since I was 19 - he had a ten month old boy at the time - the mother was unfit and took off and landed in jail many times. He has always called me mommy - and he is my son (though not biologically or adoptive).
Back in the end of April, my fiance's grandmother accused myself of child molestation on his son who i have raised for 4 years (4 1/2 now). Dyfs, attorneys, etc. cleared me and dropped the case. We had a horrible time going through DYFS investigations, etc. They even said horrible things about his father, my fiance. They are still harassing me through him... in addition to him. I would like it to stop and would like to seek money or action against them for the embarrassment, stress, health problems, job problems they put me though. I have severe anxiety/panic disorder and this uproar has hurt me (not as much as the kid though - he has been very upset/change of moods because of this). The crazy great grandmother is trying to get custody/visitation of him - take him away from his loving family. It stresses me every day for the last 4 months. I had severe health problems due to this and even landed in the hospital with a near nervous breakdown/ severe IBS/sever panic attack. I have evidence of all sorts - but I'm afraid it's not enough. I want to sue her - for defamation of character. there is nothing more life altering and heart sinking than seeing your name next to possible molester. Not a day has been the same since that. That will always be on record - I feel like they have destroyed my image - and that they should pay for days of work i missed due to the health problems and days we went to seek legal advice, etc. Mostly, they should pay for what they did to this 4 1/2 year old who does not deserve to see his parents at the police station and be asked horrible questions.
Please - any advice would be most helpful - i want the phone calls to stop - the threats to stop - and the slander, and libel to stop!