jessy123jlf
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My fiance has a son to anoth women.. In august of 2011 we went to her house to pick up the baby, after she refused to give him the baby even tho it was court ordered.. He plead with her for about three hours but she just kept sayin she would give his son to him untill he came into her apartment to talk to her... Thinking that she was just doing it to irritate us i told him to just go in and talk to her ( bad advice on my part) about ten minutes later i see my fiance walking really fast from the apartment with the baby mothers mom pulling and hitting him while he was holding his son. And the baby mother was on the phone with the police screaming i was just hit. So i told my fiance to just get in the car where me and my son were waiting.. He did we drove to a friends house and called the police amediatly. He explain that he spoke to her for a few mins and then reached down to pick his son up she ran into his arm and threw herself against the wall. She had her mom hiding in the back room of the apartment waiting ( so we relized she was setting him up the whole time.) now a week prior my fiance was involved in a work accident where he lost the top half of his thumb. He had bone loss and many stitches holding his tub together the nail was comply removed. He had a bandage on his hand.. Her story is that he hit her with his hard cast in the face and she flew against the wall and got a confusion on her butt. With no injuries to her face at all.. The local police did not believe her story and did not file any charges against my fiance. That was Friday. On Sunday we meet her at the police station to return the baby.. Later that well we got pfa papers for the incident on Friday and she was now also claiming we had burned the baby with cigarettes and beat him and left bruses on his body..after an investigation by children and youth they said the accusations were unfounded because an er doctor said the baby had no burns or bruses... When we went to court for the two pfa's they were both dropped because the judge didn't believe her story...after all that 6 months later a detective called us to inform us the da was charging him with simple assault! He said she was goin to the police station almost every day for the last 6 months complaing about the contusion on her but and had a doctors note saying she did have one.. And that he believed her story.. Even tho the police departments and 2 directives investigated in august and said they believed my fiance.. Now he has to go to court in Feb. 2012 for his charge.. We are worried that being found guilty we be devastating in his custody battle that is currently on hold untill after court.. She is currently in contempt of court in that situation because she hasn't let him see the baby since august even tho it is court ordered that he is aloud... Also my fiance has a criminal record and has spent time in jail for criminal trespassing. And is currently on probation for small possession.( July 2010).. We are afraid that if found guilty he could go back to jail...if anyone has any advice for us or has any idea of what punishment he is facing if convicted we would greatly appreciate it.. We did hire an attorney, the same one we used for the pfa hearing but we haven't meet with him about this yet... Thanks for your patience reading all this i know its alot..
