combinedsun
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I have a case pending against me of simple domestic assault and i will sum up the details. I recently ended a relationship with my ex girlfriend after dating a few months. We lived together for a while and i kindly asked her to leave to which she refused.I called the cops in to try and see if i can legally remove her from my home but despite her being not on the lease, they told me she had the legal right to live there.
My only option was to do an emmergency eviction and if it failed, then follow a normal procedure for eviction.
The following day when i was about to file the papers for an emmergency eviction, i had a change of heart and i thought, i should try to reason with her and maybe we could work things out.
That evening she came from work, she was not nice at all about it and i couldn't talk to her because she just was going crazy and trying hard to annoy me, she was playing loud music, smoking in the house to provoke me and my response was that when she was about to leave, i was going to lock the doors and she'd have to break in, to enter the house. She left the house.
She then called me and i didn't respond, i texted her and asked her what she wanted, she said, she wanted to come and pick her things up, i told her the door was open and i was delighted.
When she came in, she came in with a stranger, a female i have never seen her with and she sat down and blocked my entry to my room and she told me, she was not going to leave.
I have some expensive items in the house and that meant one thing, i needed her out immediately or find a way to remove her friend, i then left to see my landlord and was calling her so she can help me file papers for an eviction and then i would turn the papers in at the court house in the morning.
When i left and was calling a meeting with my landlord, my landlord did not respond, so i turned around and thought maybe i should leave my house and ask the cops to come and see what i have at my house in terms of my personal property and see if it can be secured, but when i called the police, they told me they were at my house already and that my ex girlfriend had called them and told me them, that i threatened to shoot her if she was not going to leave my premises.I thought this was rediculous and drove back home, they searched me for guns and they didn't find any and i told them this was baseless and gave them my side of the story but it ended badly, i was arrested and charged with simple domestic assault and put in jail for one night.
I'm a nursing student and have worked in a nursing home the last 5 yrs and will soon graduate as a nurse and i got a hint from my ex when i came back home from jail to take clothes from my house as part of a no contact order that she was doing this to ruin my career and my name, while the cops were there and was looking for my school books, she said "you dont have to go to school cuz you wont be a nurse" and the cop replied on my behalf, he has been charged and has not been found guilty to which she responded, he is going to jail.
I'm depressed and cant believe she would turn into such monster of a person and i'm a non violent man and i don't believe in the use of any weapon whatsoever to solve problems.
my problem is, am black and an immigrant and i have a hill to climb in a town where i have been slandered heavily online in my community.
what advice can you guys give me to beat these outrageous charges, i have come a long way and i need your advice and input and what should i do to assist my lawyer.
My only option was to do an emmergency eviction and if it failed, then follow a normal procedure for eviction.
The following day when i was about to file the papers for an emmergency eviction, i had a change of heart and i thought, i should try to reason with her and maybe we could work things out.
That evening she came from work, she was not nice at all about it and i couldn't talk to her because she just was going crazy and trying hard to annoy me, she was playing loud music, smoking in the house to provoke me and my response was that when she was about to leave, i was going to lock the doors and she'd have to break in, to enter the house. She left the house.
She then called me and i didn't respond, i texted her and asked her what she wanted, she said, she wanted to come and pick her things up, i told her the door was open and i was delighted.
When she came in, she came in with a stranger, a female i have never seen her with and she sat down and blocked my entry to my room and she told me, she was not going to leave.
I have some expensive items in the house and that meant one thing, i needed her out immediately or find a way to remove her friend, i then left to see my landlord and was calling her so she can help me file papers for an eviction and then i would turn the papers in at the court house in the morning.
When i left and was calling a meeting with my landlord, my landlord did not respond, so i turned around and thought maybe i should leave my house and ask the cops to come and see what i have at my house in terms of my personal property and see if it can be secured, but when i called the police, they told me they were at my house already and that my ex girlfriend had called them and told me them, that i threatened to shoot her if she was not going to leave my premises.I thought this was rediculous and drove back home, they searched me for guns and they didn't find any and i told them this was baseless and gave them my side of the story but it ended badly, i was arrested and charged with simple domestic assault and put in jail for one night.
I'm a nursing student and have worked in a nursing home the last 5 yrs and will soon graduate as a nurse and i got a hint from my ex when i came back home from jail to take clothes from my house as part of a no contact order that she was doing this to ruin my career and my name, while the cops were there and was looking for my school books, she said "you dont have to go to school cuz you wont be a nurse" and the cop replied on my behalf, he has been charged and has not been found guilty to which she responded, he is going to jail.
I'm depressed and cant believe she would turn into such monster of a person and i'm a non violent man and i don't believe in the use of any weapon whatsoever to solve problems.
my problem is, am black and an immigrant and i have a hill to climb in a town where i have been slandered heavily online in my community.
what advice can you guys give me to beat these outrageous charges, i have come a long way and i need your advice and input and what should i do to assist my lawyer.