Shoplifting, Larceny, Robbery, Theft Falsely accused, I am the actual victim

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How do I start this?
Last year i was in the middle of a break up with my seperated spouse, when her adult children got in the middle of it. I had several containers of medicines, my ex had taken from her job as a nurse.
She discovered them missing, and confronted me about them, I declined to say anything as they would serve I thought as a leverage tool if needed. Her gorilla son, two daughters and prospective son in law came to my home and went balistic. I attempted to leave, was grabbed by the gorilla son ( I am retired) punched in the chest, as the daughters screamed give us the pills or you'll die right here. In the interim my ex was screamingv get his wallet. Well they got it from my back pocket, I was thrown down a flight of stairs by the son.
When I attempted to leave again, the screaming continued, the son grabbed my thumb, twisted it back and proceeded to strangle me again. When I started screaming in pain, my wife started punching me, I reached back for a huge bowl on the counter to hit thge son with, the daughter then started screaming he is going for a knife. Which beilieve me, if I could have gotten one I would have !.
The police were called, and to my amazment, I was thrown to the ground and arrested. I was charged with two counts of aggraveted assault. When I asked the officer to look at my injuries, he responded "I don't care"
I was booked and released on my own. Her family continued to call me on my phone cell phone making threats, ( I saved the incoming numbers) her kids used my debit card, and stole $800.00 then transfered $3000.00 on line out of my account. Filed a false police report the following day saying I called from my Cell phone and made threats. I have copies of my cell phone bill and home phone showing no calls were made nor recieved. Again I am arrested for violating a no contact order.
This time I have to pay a bondman $1300.00.
I then find out, they told the cops I had kiddie porn on my computer, they sieze it, find nothing on it and proceed to prosecute me for aggravated assault. I contact the regional manager for the nursing facilty, send him the stolen pills, he does nothing! I am then ordered by the courts to have no contact with her company or any state nursing licensing agency period.
Now I hire an attorney, he takes pictures of massive bruises, a swollen thumb twice as big as the other, various contusions. He suggests i leave town for my own safety.
I do so.
Over the past few months, they attempt to steal account passwords, illegally access my retirment and disability accounts pretending to be me, and screw up a check automatic deposits.
I go to the police here, they investigate, come back and say, yep I am a crime victim, but since it took place in another state I have to bring charges there.
I speak with my lawyer, he says the D'A office probably won't persue charges for assault, not for identify theft, nor fraud with my bank or credit card company. Preliminary, 3 differnt stories come out how I grabbed a knife, no finger prints done on the so called knife. I offervto take a polygraph, my lawyer says no not now.
How in hell does one get justice? I am an assault victim with life long injuries to my hand, out $4000.00, identity theft, on bail at a cost of $1300.00, and everyone but my lawyer is saying go to the County DA's office, who wants to lock me up and probably won't do a thing?

Is the only justice in the halls? I filed a complaint with the police about the police, and they did, squat, (of course) now I have managed to really piss them off. I finally call the D'A's office, they said, "We'll get back to you"

So now what any suggestions?
 
Let your lawyer handle this.
 
I am so sorry for your troubles. Is the divorce final? File idetify theft with all your accounts and get them closed and changed to new accounts. If work will allow, continue to live out of town and move on with your life as hard as that may be. Get victim's counseling to help you through this difficult time. Keep your bills and documentation and maybe later when it's safer you can go to small claims court for the max allowed. But make sure all is resolved with the police and lawyer first.
 
I am so sorry for your troubles. Is the divorce final? File idetify theft with all your accounts and get them closed and changed to new accounts. If work will allow, continue to live out of town and move on with your life as hard as that may be. Get victim's counseling to help you through this difficult time. Keep your bills and documentation and maybe later when it's safer you can go to small claims court for the max allowed. But make sure all is resolved with the police and lawyer first.

My attorney was correct, I contacted the DA's office, witness advocates, and was told regardless of the evidence I have( pictures and medical reports), phone records etc. , the evidence and report the state police did here on identity theft, they will not even consider filing charges, saying quote" we are sorry, but we would hyave a conflict of interest" What kind of crap is that? I am the victim here, and my attorney showed them nothing at the preliminary, he said he just wanted to get their statements on record, and would not show them anything he was sitting on? I will never understand any of this.
 
The problem you have - with the assault - is that YOU say one thing, and two or three other people say another. It's difficult if not impossible to overcome that problem. Your injury does not prove that you were NOT the aggressor.

Hopefully you have now secured your accounts, gotten a divorce, and obtained restraining orders if necessary.

- Carl
 
I had about the same thing happen to me about ten years ago. My ex-wife took a knife after me nine times and broke my hand with a bat once every time happend because I was trying to calmly talk about her and I . I pushed her off me once and ran out of the house and I was arrested.
DO NOT PLEA BARGAN. I did just to get out of lawer fees and not take the risk of a triel. Now I have a record. Fight it and hopefully the trueth well come out and you can turn the law on them.
The reson you are being prosecuted is because you are the man and your wife is a woman and lady justice does not have her blind fold on and she takes care of her own. Prosecuters get more votes protecting the woman even if you are the victim and a lot of people don't think a woman can abuse a man and they just think her dumb son in law was protecting her.
Read the book Abused men the hidden side of domestic vilence.
Regardless life well get better. I have two great kidds and a wonderfull Goddly wife now.
God bless and KEEP FIGHTING
 
I had about the same thing happen to me about ten years ago. My ex-wife took a knife after me nine times and broke my hand with a bat once every time happend because I was trying to calmly talk about her and I . I pushed her off me once and ran out of the house and I was arrested.
DO NOT PLEA BARGAN. I did just to get out of lawer fees and not take the risk of a triel. Now I have a record. Fight it and hopefully the trueth well come out and you can turn the law on them.
The reson you are being prosecuted is because you are the man and your wife is a woman and lady justice does not have her blind fold on and she takes care of her own. Prosecuters get more votes protecting the woman even if you are the victim and a lot of people don't think a woman can abuse a man and they just think her dumb son in law was protecting her.
Read the book Abused men the hidden side of domestic vilence.
Regardless life well get better. I have two great kidds and a wonderfull Goddly wife now.
God bless and KEEP FIGHTING
The post you have replied to is almost one year old. Please do not necropost.

- Carl
 
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