My grandmother passed earlier this year and left her son (mu uncle) and her daughter (my mother) as executor of estate.
Just to clarify - because so many people get this wrong - when you say that your grandmother "left her son . . . and her daughter . . . as executor [
sic] of [the] estate," what exactly do you mean? Have they been appointed by the court to serve as co-executors? Or did you mean that your grandmother's will
nominated them to serve as co-executors? There's a big difference.
Now my moved out of state last year before she passed.
There's a word missing from this sentence. Based on the rest of your post, I assume this just means that, prior to your grandmother's death, your mother moved out of Tennessee. Correct?
Now I had hear that in the state of Tennessee, if you have been convicted of a felony, you can not be executor of estate. But they also want someone living in the state to be executor.
As to the last part of this, I'm not sure who "they" are or why it would matter what someone
wants. As far as the relevant law,
section 40-20-115 of the Tennessee Code states that "[t]he effect of a sentence of imprisonment in the penitentiary is to put an end to the right of the inmate to execute the office of executor, administrator or guardian, fiduciary or conservator, and operates as a removal from office." At least
one web site interprets this to mean that any person who has been convicted of a crime and received a prison sentence is forever barred from serving as an executor. I disagree with this interpretation (i.e., in my opinion, that interpretation is not supported by the statutory language), but I have not read any case law on the issue.
As far as non-residents,
section 35-50-107(a)(2)(B) expressly allows a non-resident to serve as personal representative of a decedent's estate.
My mother has done said she will sign her estate over to me of it does not have to be sold.
Huh? Your mother's estate will not exist until she dies.
Now the o ly problem is, my uncle. Since my.mother lIves out of state, and with his felony, can he still be executor of estate? If so, how can we stop him?
If you don't want your uncle to be executor or co-executor, then you can oppose his application to the court to serve as such (but only if you have standing - see below). If he has already been appointed executor or co-executor, then it's too late.
I keep telling him no, I don't want anyone to live there.
What makes you think you get any say in the matter? Did your grandmother leave you something in her will?
If you are named as a beneficiary in your grandmother's will, then you have standing to object to the appointment of an executor or to object to the manner in which an executor is administering the estate. If you're not named as a beneficiary, then you have no standing.