ex wives from hell, literally

[soniat]

I am very apprehensive about even posting this, but we just don't know what to do. My significant other has 2 ex wives and they communicate with each other. Ex 1 is just mean, mean, mean. She got 1.2 million in their divorce. There are 3 children. After she sold her tanning salons (which was half the company and valued at 1.2 million), she took my guy , JMC, to court for child support. She got it. Then she got remarried and took the kids to Florida. She got away with it. Then she declared JMC's half of the company in bankruptcy. His franchises pulled out. He was left with tax liens, etc. because she didn't pay taxes on the salons she sold and because it took almost a year to get the bankruptcy thing dismissed, he lost all but one of his stores. He no longer had the money to pay child suppot and got thrown in jail. This has been happening for 10 years. She has brainwashed the children, he can't afford his child support, can't get back on his feet because she keeps taking him to court. It's awful. She is in contempt herself, but it doesn't matter because he has no money to fight her and the kids don't even talk, acknowledege or contact him at all. Then there is ex 2, who has borderline personality disorder, really. She refuses to let him see is 9 year old son. She has accused him of hitting her, using drugs, has lied in court. She has done this in front of me. Yet...she always wins. He pays his child support to her, and she asks her son to change his name and not see his dad. It's really sick. On paper, it looks like he is a real nut. I know the real story. How the hell do I get a good lawyer to represent us? The last lawyer tried to get him to sleep with her and took him for 20k of barter money. Of course, he has no money left, so he was doing contract work on their office. Now he is left with no lawyer and no money again. It's a nightmare. It's a total nightmare. I had no idea people could be this terrible and I have been a shrink for 20 years. And this is just a tidbit. I have read every page of the documentation from the court cases and it's like a movie....a horror movie. If anyone has any suggestions, please help!

 

[Duranie]

sorry but he needs to call around for another attorney. Dad does not have to allow mom to do anything unless he allows them to get away with it (moving, not allowing access to the kids).

He might want to google some fathers rights groups in his state to see if anyone can recommend an attorney or give him some guidance.