Email Harrassment @ Work & Home

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mditto58

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Within the last 2 weeks, I have received 3 email messages from someone with a hotmail address threatening to expose the 'cheating' they allege I have been doing with a female associate at my workplace. They claim to have emails and records of phone calls between the associate and myself. Thusfar, the only example of I've seen of any 'captured' email correspondence is an internet link I emailed to my associate over 2 months ago.

This morning, it was brought to my attention that my associate had also received 2 of these emails this morning, and her spouse has also has received at least 2 emails at his workplace from this same individual over the last 2 weeks (one of which I believe was received today), both of which I'm told he deleted. I'm not aware of my wife's receipt of any messages from this source as yet.

The tone of the emails we've all received are extremely taunting, the sender wondering "what the bosses would think about some of this personal stuff on email", how our spouses "will react to the mail I sent" and "mail and email sent to the spouses, get ready to rumble".

While I'm not concerned about the content of whatever it is this individual has, as I'm sure it will be embellished or manipulated, at least 3 of us are receiving these messages at our respective workplaces. The intent of the messages are obviously trying to cause harm for harm's sake, as I haven't any idea what this individual hopes to gain from their actions. In any event, the fact that this is happening in the first place could be potentially damaging both professionally and personally.

I've been able to determine the originating IP address of the messages I received (all 3 are the same) and I have forwarded this information to the abuse@ hotmail.com and comcast.net. My feeling is that this may be someone within my company, but I don't know who. I've not replied to any of these messages, simply because I don't know which is the better course of action: silence or speaking out.

Is there any other recourse in addition to the steps I've taken?
 
I'd be happy to PM you, but i get an error message saying the administrator has disabled private messaging.
 
well, crap. apparently it's not something I can fix. send me an email at

jur1s7 [ a t ] gmail [d o t] com
 
Harrassed Via Emails

I am currently being harrassed by an ex-friend who has had a major meltdown and is trying to extort $10,000 from me. I work as a marketing agent for a set of online casinos. He used one of these casinos and lost $10,000. He now seems to think I can get this money back which I have no control over nor have ever said I was more then a maketing representative of the company and dont control the financial aspect of the online casino.
He had millions of dollars but lost it over serveral months gambling. currently his wife was put away agian into a mental rehab. His daughter has been expelled for Drug selling, he lost hius job for bursting at the boss, and was trespassed from the daughters school for bursting at administration. nevertheless, he has totally lost it! he now demands that if I do not give him the $10K at least pay him for any gifts or dinners he's paid for. He said "I will be calling you Mother and e-mailing her the above. If you do not respond by e-mail with in 24 hours. I will also e-mail this to any friends we might share. I will fax a copy of this to your work fax number, it's on the card you gave me.

Please do not call any of my phone #'s , respond only in e-mail that can be printed."

He is a liar, a was warned this many times before and still befriended him, which was my fault. He has emailed my friends, tried to call my parents and email them and has faxed things to my office. Luckily no one believes his story as everyone values my high integrity andhonesty. However, this is getting annoying, and Im tired of the threats. What can I do? Here is a sample of what he wrote, where it states <------- I put an explanation in for each time...
Do I have any legal recourse or at best should I file charges with the sherriffs department. I do not owe him anything, he is desperate. Oh, I didnt mention he is nuts too, his dogs had puppies and he put bullet holes behind their heads and burried them, he's poisoned his kittens and has made remarks in thepast about his gun collection and I may be afraid for my life becasue he seems to have no shame over killing young kittens and puppies!!!

The email he sent out to everyone!:

"From: Fldays@aol.com [mailto:Fldays@aol.com]
Sent: Tuesday, September 12, 2006 10:02 PM
To: #######@cfl.rr.com
Subject: (no subject)



$600.00 Best Buy for TV-April ß------------------He said this was my birthday gift for last year?

$200.00 for computer- April ß------------------------------------He gave me the computer to get fixed, It was unfixable?

$80.00 Hard Rock Casino Loan-Mayß----------------------------He let me use some of his chips to gamble with on a poker table, and he kept the winnings. (He wanted me to learn how to play texas holdem!)

$60.00 Hard Rock Casino Loan-Mayß----------------------------He let me use some of his chips to gamble with on a poker table, and he kept the winnings. (He wanted me to learn how to play texas holdem!)

$25.00 change from Hotel stay in Atlantic Cityß----------------------------He got the change back and gambled it away!

$37.00 for you and Kevin's dinner on the trip Home because your wallet was stolen. Said you would pay back... ß------paid him back he said when I took him out for dinner..

$ 200.00 cash loan for gas because your card wouldn't work you said you would pay back by the NEXT Friday. You didn't pay backß----Paid back in next paycheck!; (loan for gas? We were supposed to pay gas and food 50/50 on the trip! He made me pay for everything, since he gambled it away!

(someone used my account and the bank cancelled my credit card to stop the transaction).

$34.00 for dinner you said you would give Delilah back because you card was declined at Denny's. You told her you would pay her back the next morning...you didn't, I gave it back to her because I knew you were good for it. I was wrong.<-------paid him back next day!, Delilah said she was paying for dinner, she had no cash, my card was declined because it was one of the cards that was ripped off and the bank closed the account to stop the fraud, so you're daughter paid with her money, which we later find out was her drug money!

I will be calling you Mother and e-mailing her the above. If you do not respond by e-mail with in 24 hours. I will also e-mail this to any friends we might share. I will fax a copy of this to your work fax number, it's on the card you gave me.<--------------------------Go ahead my mom will never believe you, Work will think your nuts!

Please do not call any of my phone #'s , respond only in e-mail that can be printed.

I'm sorry it has come to this--But you will not keep you word. You can even call to say you can't keep your word.<-------keep my word about what I never promised you anything, you lost the 10K on your own so Like I said monday, No! You can't have $10K and you're extortions will never work!

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BY the way he lied and didnt give me 24hours, he started to send the emails and faxes out to everyone mins after I received the email, my friends forwarded the emails tome and the time they were sent were mins after mine. He got their emails becuase I used to firward humor in a group and he got the emails that way!
 
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