i was given a restraining order which i lost my weapons and now my job after picking up some of my items from my residence i was infromed that this whole thing should not have turned out like this, it wasnt suppose to happpen this way. can i sue them for deprivation of charater due to this was all created to cover up an affair that was happening while we were together and this the easiest way to cover her name instead get the light off her and on to me. what can i do to regain my job and have this all go away