mightymoose
Moderator
It really is quite easy. Review your custody orders for any language about medical matters regarding the child. Then, hold to those terms and hold your ex to those terms.
If you don't agree with the medication your son was prescribed then confiscate the medicine and take him to another doctor of your choice for another opinion.
If you want, seek a modification to the custody order that stipulates that at least one parent must be present at the doctor visits.
You are not helpless here- you are the only one that can bring about the changes you seek. Nobody can do it for you.
