Hello,
Thank you for reading,
Me and my ex were together for around 4 years and we have a daughter of 18 months, we also have a property together which has only about £6,000 equity.
She is the ideal partner and shes really good with our daughter but I told her that I didnt love her and since then she has been bitter about it.
When we split we both loved the house but to save trouble we agreed that her parents would take on the property as she doesnt have a job and to save uprouting our daughter and I would give the property to her as there was only around £6000 equity.
She decided that she cant live with someone who doesnt love her, I really didnt want to leave but her dad "talked me into it" not physically but very threatening way (maybe i should of got the police involved? i dont know, i just didnt want any hastle), since then I have been living at my mothers which I shouldnt be because she can get into trouble with the council but I have nowhere else to go, could say im homeless?
Anyway it has got to the point now where she has told her farther that I shout at my daughter which I would never do, I love her to bits. I think shes using this to get at me because she knows it hurts when my daughter is involved.
I still have loads of things at the house such as my business documents and she said I can arrange a time to come get them but I know her dad will be there, same as when I arrange to see my daughter so Im a bit scared to go...
We do have an agreement that from next month I will pay half of the mortgage until it is changed out of my name but up until now I have paid all the mortgage and all bills.
Where should I go from here, what should I do?
Thank you again, Richard
Thank you for reading,
Me and my ex were together for around 4 years and we have a daughter of 18 months, we also have a property together which has only about £6,000 equity.
She is the ideal partner and shes really good with our daughter but I told her that I didnt love her and since then she has been bitter about it.
When we split we both loved the house but to save trouble we agreed that her parents would take on the property as she doesnt have a job and to save uprouting our daughter and I would give the property to her as there was only around £6000 equity.
She decided that she cant live with someone who doesnt love her, I really didnt want to leave but her dad "talked me into it" not physically but very threatening way (maybe i should of got the police involved? i dont know, i just didnt want any hastle), since then I have been living at my mothers which I shouldnt be because she can get into trouble with the council but I have nowhere else to go, could say im homeless?
Anyway it has got to the point now where she has told her farther that I shout at my daughter which I would never do, I love her to bits. I think shes using this to get at me because she knows it hurts when my daughter is involved.
I still have loads of things at the house such as my business documents and she said I can arrange a time to come get them but I know her dad will be there, same as when I arrange to see my daughter so Im a bit scared to go...
We do have an agreement that from next month I will pay half of the mortgage until it is changed out of my name but up until now I have paid all the mortgage and all bills.
Where should I go from here, what should I do?
Thank you again, Richard
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