Here are the only two things so far that I have found but another thing that I was curious about was the way my family found out of my cousins death was by the coroners office calling but the police sure went to my cousins church and told them about the death and they were even told before my family even recieved the call from the coroner,
That's likely a procedural thing. I can tell you from living and working in a small town that word gets around well before the coroner has a chance to notify anyone. And, sometimes, when they field questions they decide the best course of action is to come clean with what happened. There could be any number of reasons why the police notified others ... could have been as part of the investigation, could have been an error, or could have been part of a reasoned response. It's impossible to say unless you ask them directly.
I dont know nor understand why but even the news paper down there had to express how my cousin dropped out of high school and such,
Newspapers print what they do. If that was all they could find out about him, then they run with it. Since they couldn't say he was a student at, graduate of, XYZ high school, they likely went with the drop out angle.
it just seems like they are trying to make him out to be a bad kid or something but they failed to mention how my cousin has volunteered at the kitchen table (feeding the homeless) for the last six years or how he was a very active member of his church, or how he was given an award for volunteering a thousand hours of service to the second hand shop down there
Could be no one told them.
now we are being told that they were drawing male penises all over my cousins face when they had realized that he wasen't breathing and then freaked out scrubbing it all off before moving his body outside
Okay ... so what we have is stupid party tricks at a drunken booze bash where some of the partygoers were behaving in a juvenile manner. Hardly suspicious, just the actions of drunken guys. And, of course, any other response was likely a panicked response to his action. Could that be a crime? Sure. Whether it might be prosecuted might depend on why the people did what they did.
Does anyone know who can help us find out what really happend that night my cousin died, what can we do to get the answers we need to be able to move on in life and can anyone tell me what the laws on protesting or picketing are? Thanks
You (or the immediate family, rather) can ask the police for information as it comes up, but they do NOT have to provide anyone with anything. Investigations like this could take a very long time. It might be that they will not have a good case to make for much of anything against anyone. Again, if he was a willing participant in the drinking, there may not be any crime for contributing to his death. He was 18 and was legally able to make his own decision in that regard. Yes, providing alcohol charges might be made against someone, but the odds are that no one will be able to be held directly accountable (criminally) for his death. Associated lesser crimes might be made, but chances are slim that circumstances would allow for manslaughter or some such thing.
But, we do not know the details, so it may well be that the situation WILL present a case for manslaughter or a related lesser homicide. And, of course, a civil case might find someone responsible even if a criminal case does not.
- Carl