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May be a dead thread to you but I still appreciate an answer!!!

When will ppl learn that EVERYONE has the right to ask for advice? Even if that person isn't "part of that family" We are NOT here to pass judgment on who should ask and who shouldn't. I think she should talk to Dad and see what they can do from there. She can try to get heard and if theres...

Have you considered a PFA also?

wow...to me that doesn't seem like something that the judge should really have power of...I mean hows the guy supposed to be expected to pay his support when the judge is telling him not to work for how many days? I thought so long as the child is being cared for that it doesnt matter where the...

Even if someone is ready and waiting to adopt her if his rights were signed over the chances of getting his rights terminated against his will is really hard to do. I would say nearly impossible unless there's good reason. which in this case I don't think they'd do it. Sorry...

You're welcome! Everything will eventually work out the way its meant to. Unfortunetly with some parents that is all they care about doing. Good luck with everything! Keep doing what youre doing now and everthing should work out in your favor.

If Dad is out of the picture long enough (like more than just 2 years)you might be able to get his rights terminated then. But if he's not in the childs life now then really what does it matter if he has "rights" if he's not useing them then really you've got the same thing you would have if he...

Now wait let me get this straight. You and the judge expect him to provide you with the things you need to take care of the baby? And yet he hasn't esstablished paternitiy yet? That doesn't sound right at all. Not just that but what makes anyone think that he should have to provide you with...

You def. need to get some form of housing. Not sure what a judge would do in a custody situation if the dad has a house and everything for the baby and youre living on the streets with no job or car. That would really not look good for you keeping custody of the baby. Right now you dont have the...

Just wanted to beat Lonely to this one! Everyone has the right to ask questions even stepparents who arent legally involved. Its still a person who is asking for advice and thats what were here for right? to give advice not to say who should and shouldnt ask for it. oh and Gail I dont...

You wont have to pay unless youre established as the father through a paternity test. If she never takes it that far then you're completely out of the picture. If the husband adopts even after you've been proven as the father then you wont have to pay support in that instance either. Also does...

also a little bit of personal advice. Next time I would advise keeping it in our pants and not go around having affairs. If you end up having to pay child support you had it coming to you!

I would think that if the husband claims the child and puts his name on the b.c. then he is then the "father". I think the only way for her to start getting support from you once the baby is born is by getting paternity established that you are the father. If she is trying to hide the fact that...

I'd say it sounds like Dad has a very good case! Good luck! And don't mind anyone who says it's not your business as the stepmom they're full of it!

Honestly I think it may be time you moved on and got passed this issue. I doubt a judge is going to do anything about it. Dads visitation time is his time not yours. Dad isn't putting the child in danger so there is really nothing you should be stressing about. While Dads at work the child is...

wow I think thats the first Lonely post that I've ever really agreed with...scary

Hey you're all entitled to your own opinion and you can all think yours is right. My opinion is the system is flawed. I'm going to keep that opinion. Thanks for all the input.

Im just saying that if CP remarry's then they would need less income to support themselves. Children hardly need more than a couple hundred a month in their needs. From what I see the support helps the CP take care of paying for things around the house being as a lot of the time they're single...

sorry if I misread your post. I just think its sad that a lot of the time from what I've seen with my friends and family the child doesn't get any benifit out of it and all the money that is supposed to be for supporting the child is only supporting mom. In my husbands particular example Mom...

it's w/e. It's not like I didn't think this was how it was. I dont mind hearing the truth. And I'm not the significate other....All I wanted to know was if there was a way to have childsupport made to be used for the child. I got the answer. Also in this situation there was a time when mom...