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    father needs help with visition, child support

    Oh, I thought it was directed at me, then I apologize. Ive just been through a lot this week. emotionally on edge I guess. My mother almost died the same day I made that post, and dealing with excitment of seeing my kids again, but leaving my husband behind, just a lot of emotion going around...
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    will a paternity test that proves me not the father stop the child support payments?

    Why is there no recourse for women who lie about paternity? They should Make DNA a test done at birth. Everyone gets so angry at these fathers, but honestly men dont know if the child they are raising is actually their own. I think the double standard is rediculous. If you doubt your wife, you...
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    High child support has caused short sale, near bankruptcy

    Nykole, Im in a very similiar situation. For some reason this site doesn't allow private emails.
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    father needs help with visition, child support

    I guess Im not good at re-posting the Quotes from other people, I just realized I had the wrong quote in my post. Anyway I thought posting that troll song was unnecessary and childish. If people are in here posting, they are usually emotional and at a loss as to what to do, so to have people...
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    father needs help with visition, child support

    Bay, I was reffering to the troll song, I felt that was rude. My husband made mistakes, he was 17 when this all happened, she was his first. He used condoms with this girl. I believe that because he was almost obssesive with using condoms with me, up until we got married. Ive come her to try...
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    father needs help with visition, child support

    No, I agree with you Georgia. I know this is only something he can legally do himself. He works 12 hour shifts, and crazy schedules, so Im trying to do a little of the legwork and research for him. I think my post above is just frustration. His ex has been making personal attacks against me...
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    father needs help with visition, child support

    Thats just rude. Im just at a loss as to what to do. Part of me knows he screwed up in a lot of ways.
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    father needs help with visition, child support

    I know he isnt an innocent party in this. Neither is she. I just dont know what to do at this point.
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    father needs help with visition, child support

    Just recently, through conversations with my husbands ex-girlfriend, and my mother and sister in law, we have discovered (although always suspected) that there is a Very good chance that this boy is not my husbands. My husband wants to get a paternity test done, but Im not even sure now, after...
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    Can one parent be awarded child support if custody is 50/50?

    Ok, I thought things were solved, but now my ex has me worried he is up to something else. I had sent him an email, trying to come to an agreement that we could bring to the mediation when I return to Michigan in a couple of weeks. I thought given our circumstances, that a 50/50 split on...
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    father needs help with visition, child support

    He wasnt sure if he was going to pursue visitation, until his ex opened up the option to him. He was trying to do what he felt was best for his son, staying away. Granted before that time (4 years ago) he didnt do enough, and just let things be, but I guess he grew up and realized what he was...
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    father needs help with visition, child support

    This is a very long story. Im writing this for my husband (just married 1 mo ago). I have other threads about my own custody fights with my ex which have been resolved. Now what is going on with my husband. When he was 17 he got a girl pregnant (allegedly) she was known for sleeping around...
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    Next step?

    As a temoporary arrangement I have thought of that, but not permenant. Its in my ability, however hard its going to be to keep the kids close to both their parents so I want to do that.
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    Next step?

    Im not even considering bringing the kids out here. It was a thought at one time, but I decided it would have been the best financially, but not the best for the kids. I will have to search for an attorney then. I think I will also try to contact our mediator and explain the situation before...
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    Next step?

    Another issue is coming up with money for a lawyer. Ill have barely enough to get home. There is a big part of me that just wants to get home too. I miss my kids terribly. Its been 5 months now since Ive seen them, other than webcam.
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    Next step?

    The hardest part is there are too many IF's. Im ok until extership is finished (its considered part of the program to complete it). It is just unfortunate that I cannot accept a job offer for a few months just to have that experience behind me. Im am being placed in a highly sought after...
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    Next step?

    Ok, some may have to read my other thread to see what is going on but; I have plans to return to Michigan Mid July to avoid my ex from trying to take full physical custody of my children. My externship starts next week, and should only take 4-6 weeks. As far as a job when I return to...
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    Dont know what I should do.

    I am. I just finished talking with my school, and they are going to make sure I have the first startup for externship and a quick one. So I will be able to head home as soon as I have finished. Thank you for your advice. I wouldn't have know that was something to worry about. I plan to have...
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    Dont know what I should do.

    he can try for child support, but it is in the agreement that we have to go through mediation first for it. It was a stipulation he had put in there.
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