I saw what you had posted and I am sorry as to your current situation. I am not a lawyer but I do know a few things. First of all, it may be tedious and check with a lawyer or lagal aid about it but you might be able to keep asking for changes to the terms of the custody until it more resonable...
I am a mother of two young girls ages 4 and 6. My husband and I have been married a year this August. He would like to adopt both of them and give him our last name. Both girls introduce themselves with his last name anyway but we feel it should be legal considering both biological fathers want...
You seem to be very concerned for the placement of your grandson. You should also keep in mind how your grandson will feel about you latter on in life when it comes to your relationship with his mother. Legaly you might think you are doing what is all fine and dandy when realisticaly you could...