Recent content by sharpiespankie

I would probably have to do the traveling, because he doesn't pay that much in support as it is. Although if it came down to it, I would drop the support altogether to be able to move. I can find a better job where I want to go, and around here there is nothing.

His father doesn't live in the same school district, so either way, he'd have to move schools. It's only an hour away, so it won't affect his visitation too much, I am prepared to offer more time for vacations, and holidays and summer and stuff.. My son also wants to move.

In my custody order, it says that I can't move to another county without court permission. What circumstances warrant a move, where I will be able to retain physical custody of my son, and be able to move. Thanks

Does he want to see the biological mother? Why does your husband want to take him, if she gave up her rights to be his mother? I would suggest contacting a lawyer, to see what you could do.

ok, with bf's situation, he isn't making allegations, kids school has called, and others have called. She's even admitted to some of the allegations. And yet nothing happens. He's gotten lawyers, and lost more and more everytime he's gone to court. My situation, his brother has been accused...

He should probably file for emergency custody before he goes to pick up the child. That way that part is out of the way. So many loopholes in the system, it's better to CYA........

I know in NY, you being the father can request a copy of the actual report, but SS can't give who filed the report. Most likely it was probably a mandated reporter, but you won't be able to find out, unless the person who filed tells you. You can write to SS and get a copy of the report. You...

Just found this site today. I live in upstate NY, and my boyfriend and I have similar situations, on both sides. We have been together for over 4 years now, we have a 2 year old together, and I have an 8 year old, and he has a 9 and 7 year old. His ex wife has physical custody of the...