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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    the State and Insurance was paying for me to stay there. This is the 3rd place I have been at, I wasn't at one place for a whole year, just a few months at each place. I wasn't able to get my own Account because I can only have a certain amount of money or the State will stop paying. I am on...
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    We had opened the Savings Account to save up for an adoption. He said he called it BABY. My ex told me it was a Savings Account online. I asked my Dad to ask him about it. My ex told my Dad that there was no such account, he said it was his 401K. My Dad asked me "Why would he lie?" Why would I...
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    I have been trying since the breakup, I just got internet access at this new place. From March 2014 to March 2015 there was no way to get access to the bank account. If I lived in my own place I don't care if I ever see my family again, but I am stuck with them when I am in these places. I never...
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    My Dad is in contact with my ex because he still has some of my stuff. I have not talked to my ex since my brother broke up with me in March 2014. (He couldn't do it himself, so he had MY brother do it for him - who does that??). I don't want to talk to him, it will just make me mad. I guess I...
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    it was a family thing and my Dad picked me up.
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    I'm not planning on telling them. LOL :) I don't think it's fair either... but what he did to me wasn't fair. We had a Savings Account with (he said) about/over $20,000 saving for a baby, he even called the it "The BABY Account" but then he tells my Dad there was no such account? That...
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    No. My family has always been controlling over me since I was younger. If they knew that I was going to do anything with the Joint Account they would tell my ex, even though it is a JOINT Account, my family wouldn't care. They would say it is HIS and I don't deserve any of it. My Dad even...
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    I'm trying to figure it out online. Online banking..
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    I know it doesn't make any sense. If I had control over my life, I wouldn't be where I am right now. It's my family and County Caseworker that are in control of everything. They won't allow me to live by myself because of things/lies my brother told the County/State. My friend doesn't understand...
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    I don't have transportation. My friend could take me there but she lives in Wisconsin, she comes around my area once in awhile for work and then she would come here. She is the only one I can do any of this with, the only one who believes in me. My family doesn't.
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    It's my family. They don't believe I should get any of the money even though some of it is mine (in the Joint Account). I know it sounds crazy. I have no say in my own life, my family is running everything. I was hoping I could do SOMETHING, so I have been searching online and found this...
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    Nobody in my family wanted me with them, and my ex didn't want me at the house (my Dad told me this). They had me committed so I would be the States problem. That's why I was put in those places. I did mention my story was complicated. :(
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    Ironically, it's my own family who is keeping me from my stuff. They are on my ex's side (even though he was abusive to me, my family doesn't believe me, they liked him and don't believe anything bad about him, they believe I am the one who is lying). My Dad even told me that I should give my...
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    Yes, it was in my name. I don't think I signed it over to him? I don't remember signing any papers. (this happened over 10 years ago). We had a Joint Bank Account - that doesn't mean anything in terms of him owing me anything? Even when my money was in that account? He gets to leave me...
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    Common Law Marriage/Alimony?

    My story is kind of complicated, I'll explain the best I can... I was with my ex for 16 years, we lived together for 12. We became engaged in December 2013. He put me in the hospital (the "crazy ward") in March 2014. 2 days later I was supposed to be discharged because there is nothing wrong...
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