Wow!
I truly feel for your situation, and I am not a lawyer either but I just wanted to stress to you about your security issues. If in fact your wife took all your personal information, please make sure to change your social security number, call your credit card companies and have your card...
I could use any help any one can offer me. I have been in the United States since 1978, I have had a green card since then. Since 9/11 the laws have gotten much tougher on immagrents. In 2003 I reapplied for my green card, paid the fee and was given a temporary card tillmy original would come in...