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    Tax deductions allowed for support order

    I have an attorney, but he supports this agreement for some reason. I am in the process of seeking other counsel because I am not comfortable with this arrangement. I am not in a position financially to fight this in court, but I just want what is fair for my four children. I don't understand...
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    Tax deductions allowed for support order

    We are in the process of setting our child support and I am a little confused on how this amount is calculated. Husband's attorney states in the order (not yet entered): "Because support has been calculated to include maximizing husband's tax deductions, such as reductions for property taxes...
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    Illegal wiretapping

    I discovered my now ex-husband was secretly taping all my phone conversations with my friends. This was about three years ago when we were still married. He used a device that records the 2 party conversation whenever the phone is picked up. When confronted with this, he never admitted it, but...
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    Back Child Support

    I am receiving $4000 a month and will go to approximately $2300. Do I have to pay this all at once? I hope not...... Thanks so much for your reply.
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    Back Child Support

    I have been receiving Unallocated Support for the past 31 months. This was to expire in March (after 28 months), but we have not had our court date as of yet. I was informed that I will owe my ex husband for the amount he has been over paying. This is about $6000 to date. How is this handled? Do...
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    Mediation

    Thanks so much for your reponse! I think you are right about the mediator...it really doesn't matter as long as this gets sorted out! I am ok financially for now with child support and help from my father, but eventually I need to take some shifts on the weekend, so I need to know he will follow...
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    Mediation

    My ex-husband does not believe our JPA applies to him when it comes to following the visitation guidelines. We have joint custody and I am the custodial parent. He can visit the kids (4 of them, but rarely sees the oldest) on Tuesday with every other weekend as overnights. He has been...
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    Visitation

    Thanks! I hope mediation will work.
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    Visitation

    Thanks! I thought since it was stated in the JPA as such that he had to follow these guidelines. So, he can pick and choose what days he wants to see them? Really not fair to them. ugh! ;>)
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    Visitation

    How do I get my ex to abide by the visitation aggreement? He is always backing out of his weekends with the children. Is he legally bound to follow the visitation schedule or is this not a "mandatory agreement" (his words) that he see the children. He feels it is optional. This is hindering me...
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