Recent content by JLang1987

In response to your response....no, im not supporting my child...Im supporting my ex (who doesnt reside with my child, or pay for any of his food/medical bills/housing, who is actually half way across the country), which in my book is wrong. I think that shes actually lived with him/seen him...

You know...I really hate people that are ALL for the mother...no matter what they do...their perfect, they do no wrong. And just because I choose not to see HER son for PERSONAL reasons does NOT give you the right to call me and "immature child"....I think i pay child support which is supporting...

Well maybe....if they think she did something wrong, they will take him away, he will get adopted by someone who wants kids, and she wont be able to get him anymore. Problem solved. Never mind though, I'll just ask someone else. Thankx for your time.

Then why is DHS calling everyone trying to find her. And why would they tell me that they have police looking for her if she didnt do something wrong/or they werent going to do anything?

I don't have to disclose my choices or anything I do to anyone. Its no ones business but mine. I didn't say that DHS was looking for her because of her going to see her online boyfriend. They are looking for her because she just packed up and left in the middle of an ongoing DHS investigation...

Uh yeah, taking your child with you to Arizona to stay with a guy you don't know is a little crazy not to mention bad parenting ( the guy could be a murderer, child abuser, or sexual predator for all she knows). And she left because she knew they were going to accuse her of child abuse, pretty...

My ex-girlfriend is being investigated for child neglect. This isnt the first time. She is currently living with her grandmother. Last night she left in the middle of the night (after knowing that she is being investigated) to drive to Arizona (where her online boyfriend, a guy she doesnt know...

Thank you for your time and answering my questions

maybe i was trying to "get" her....yes i do think that she should have to pay for just dumping my child off with her grandmother...and still recieving my child support, dont say that if you were in my situation you wouldnt try and do the same thing

never mind, forget it im done

and yes you do judge....instead of answering a simple question your telling me things that i am doing wrong and judging me because i dont want to seek custody, and basically saying what a bad parent i am, its my business and my business only WHY i dont want to get custody ...now...go back to my...

yeah thats really mature

nothing never mind...you guys dont help you judge.

never mind, i thought he meant something else but apparently not...i chose not to pursue custody because i cannot have a child for personal reasons.

ETA: Please don't say it's because you can't have a child, because you already have one. I thought he meant one besides my son