Red Kayak
Well-Known Member
Yeah, well, it's HIS business as a legal adult what HE does. You don't have standing to sue B or anyone else in this matter. If your parents had some sort of agreement (contract) with your sibling concerning tuition payments, they *might* have grounds to sue for the return of some of that money back if the contract was breached. *Might.* (Unlikely.)As long as she lives in that house the chance of her detransitioning is nill because everyone that lives there is trans.
Also if I can do something legal against B it would serve to show the trans community that they cannot incite misappropriation of funds to incite someone to live at their house and go unscathed.
Would I have a case if we sued B?
Yeah, you have no case.Here is the whole story and what the ordinance department said and why I disagree with them:
You made a complaint with code enforcement, the complaint was investigated, and it was determined that your complaint did not rise to the level of code violation.
Actually, you have less that no case.
You are causing pain to your sibling and those that care about your sibling's emotional health - because it's pretty clear that your ONLY motive is to maintain your sibling's identity as female/sister/she/her, regardless of whether that's in his best interest. You sibling should file for a restraining order against you. Your frivolous code enforcement complaint and your postings here could be used as evidence in order to obtain that order.
Observations:
1) You catch more flies with honey: your behavior is pushing your sibling away.
2) You cannot make someone change who they really are.
I've never met your sibling, so I don't know if they're confused, experimenting, or truly trans. I do know that if you're half as insensitive in person as you come across here, that your sibling doesn't feel seen or loved by you.