should i worry?

[howie110]

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My wife and I have recently went through a divorce hearing and she got full custody of all three of our children. I have been in my childrens lives ever since their births and even since we have been seperated. I recently discovered an e-mail from their mother to her oldest son (my stepson) that said "if I could get rid of him I would, but I would be the one to get in trouble or something"! I have it printed out and I was wondering if I had any grounds to have the full custody issue reversed based on this statement? The final decree has not been signed by the judge yet and I havent returned the rough draft for final approval. Can this be done? If so, how?

 

[calalily]

It's hard to judge with only a partial statement. The forum would have to know the whole email, beginning to end, to gauge her true intent. You can read something into anything if taken out of context.

 

[Duranie]

Hopefully you got a good visitation schedule set up. Did you have an attorney? Are you able to claim 1 or 2 of the kids on taxes? Make sure visitation is VERY specific and that mom cannot move out of a certain area with the kids. Make sure all your bases are covered.
I cannot really say anything about the email it was not written to you so its hard to consider it a threat.