Hi, My boyfriend of 6 years has an ex that just wont quit. For some reason I think he's afraid of her, or thinks that thinks will get worse if he dosent do what she wants. I could go on forever about the things she does, but I want to get right to my question. He is paying her 17% support. They were not married, and she has sole custody. She wants daycare money, and health insurance money on top of the support. Can she get all this money, or is that what the support is for???