Hello, This is my first time and posting on this site. I hope you can help me. I married a man I should not have married. I was aware of all of his attributes and I knew there was a possability things would not change and I would be unhappy. We have been married only 2 months and I want a divorce. He pulled my hair really hard in a heat of an augument and I know it will only escalate to worse abuse treatments. It's not the first time he has done so. I tried to ignor the signs. Before we got married he would grab me up by my collar or shove me into a wall and threaten to do more. I married him thinking things would change with the verbal a physical abuse, but I was wrong. We have a 3 year old son together and I hurt for him. His father with physically and verbally abuse me in front of him with out a care in the world. I have no voice in this marriage. I am required to take it and shut up. Do not provoke and lie down like a dog and take it because he is proving shelter for me and our son. I want this marriage to end before it gets worse. I want to save my sons child hood while I can. What is my first step. I can just take our son and move out. I know he has rights to but he is not reasonable. He will use him as a pon against me. I need help with the smart way of doing things. He is very decitful and manipulating. Please help me.