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    adoption and divorce

    I don't see why its possible that child is just as much yours as it is hers. You really need to talk to an attorney. I asume this is a non biological child from neither of you, and not mom's bio child? Do you have a relationship at all with the child?
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    Child Custody

    He actually does not have to see the children on his time. Is he the non custodial parent? You cannot force the non custodial parent to use his visits. However all you can do is document it and if he is getting a parenting time discount on child support, you can possibly go back to court and ask...
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    unborn daughter's last name.

    I agree, you can plan on having your baby's father fight this. He can tell you right now he does not want involvement but he can always change his mind after the baby is born. This man you want to name the baby after is of no legal relation to you or the baby.
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    Advice needed!!!!

    You cannot just take the girls out of state though. Does Dad live in NC? What state is the order out of? Were you ever married to him? If you do not show up you could lose in default. You really need to get an attorney or show to the hearing and prove that the move is in the girls best interest...
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    Common law marriage & alimony

    If your state recognizes common law and you and your boyfriend agree to enter into a common law marriage, the alimony may stop. If there is no co-habitation provision and you do not common law, then you are probably ok. It would be really unwise for you to take on your boyfriends last name..it...
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    Retro Child Support payments

    Was dad paying support from a court order, or was he paying on his own? If there was a court order to pay through the courts and he did not pay through the courts, mom can claim she was never paid. Often stuff like this is considered a gift. Child support should always be paid through the court...
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    Child Support-but falsely charged

    Dad needs to see an attorney. Was mom ever on government assistance? When you say government child support, do you mean welfare, or child support through the state bureau? If Dad was not paying through the bureau and paid her directly, then the arrears stack up. Did dad pay her cash or through...
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    Please Help!!

    You should also post on http://community.lawyers.com/forums/default.aspx?GroupID=10.
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    Please Help!!

    Yes you should appeal this, it will go in front of another judge. I think It is completely nuts that a judge would force you to work 2 full time jobs, even if you worked 2 before. Does your ex work? What state are you in? See if a fathers rights group can help you. What does your attorney say...
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    My Grandchild Endangered

    Dad rights trumps yours, if paternity was established anyways. If it wasn't then he is a legal stranger to the child. Hopefully an attorney in Oregon can help.
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    Please help with adoption advice

    Grandma has few rights here, but your brother as far as I know still has to terminate his rights. Your mom should see an attorney. Your brother does have some rights yes but being they are minors and not married, paternity will need to be established. Your mom might want to see if your state has...
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    My Grandchild Endangered

    Where is the father here? Have you been on contact with the case worker? You being out of state has a huge disadvantage. Are there any other relatives close by that can ask for custody? At any rate you need to contact an Oregon attorney ASAP.
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    Custody in Alabama

    Until a court decides otherwise either of you have full rights to the kids. Borrow the money to file for custody ASAP.
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    unborn daughter's last name.

    You can probably give the baby any last name you want but giving this child the name of your moms boyfriend is going to cause confusion especially since they ar not married and you do not have this mans last name. I wouldn't do it. Also if momn and this guy have a nasty breakup you are stuck...
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    Common law marriage & alimony

    If there is no remarriage or cohabitation provision then your ex is still obligated to pay. Now, he can still TRY to get it stopped or reduced but doubtful he would be successful.
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    Refinancing to get my ex off the mortgage/deed.

    She has to sign a quit claim deed for this to be done. You can ask if she will sign it but then she signs away all rights to the house. I would not count on getting her to do this unless you still agree to pay her for part of the house when it sells.
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    legal aid says I make too much money

    Mom needs an attorney big time.
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    Separating legally from the "living together" status

    No it would not be a good idea to move, he mnight have to go through court proceedings to evict her. He should file for visiation of the child or even custody if he wants it. Was paternity established?
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    legal aid says I make too much money

    Your post is confusing. You as a grandmother have no rights here and you have no right to see the child. Mom needs to see an attorney and file for visitation. It is extremely unlikely she is going to get custody if the child hss been with dsasd this whole time. If you want to help your daiughter...
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    Single Mom Marrying Into The Military, Legal Advice Needed!!

    Yep, one of both fathers can protest the move. Just because you never married them does not mean they have less rights..you still had kids with them and decided they were good enoigh to father your kids. Your best bet is to either get written permission from both fathers and go to court to get...
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