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Regardless, mom has to prove the move is in the kids best interest and not her. If she moved that far with yet another guy, very doubtful she will prove it especially if dad and extended family are in CA. If by some chance the judge allowes her to stay, I would be asking that mom provide 100% of...

There are always 2 sides to every story. Somewhere in the middle there is the truth. Again CPS and DCFS is not perfect. Big case out here in AZ with Walmart removing kids from a home due to bath tub pics. CPS and Walmart both acted inappopriately. The FLDS in Texas, some of those kids were being...

Jharris with all due respect, everybody is entitled to their opinions. Without CPS though the kids would be in even more trouble. No government entity is perfect. I am a CASA and work a CPS case. Both of my cases so far though, the child was removed from the home for excellent reasons and both...

Was Dad married to the mom? Is there any court order for custody? Dad should see an attorney for advice but in most states if Dad has signed the birth paperwork he is the legal Dad and should be able to get the kids but it depends on if he is the legal father or not. I can tell you the boyfriend...

DCFS is not worse than the mob in most states. Kids generally get removed for good reason. Your sister should have been given a case plan with a chance to get the child back. How long has the child been in the states custody? When was her last court date and when is the next one? Is she...

You need an attorney. how long have they had your child for?

The kids are not being taken care of if they are exposed to violence. Stop the cycle now.

Yes he should be able too. Is there an actual custody agreement? Was paternity ever established? He should be able to go get the kids. If i were Dad I would take them back to CA and file for custody. Jurisdiction requirements for NV is only 6 weeks, so Dad needs to act now.

It sounds like the kids are exposed to violence, no wonder why DCFS took them away. As long as you continue a relationship with him and not divorce him, expect problems. Your kids should come first. Has DCFS given you a case plan? If I were you I would be filing for divorce, and work on your...

Dad does not have to pay anything, not a dime. If he gives her anything, he should just give her the 3k up front and wish her a nice life.

Well bad choice of a guy to get pregnant by. Until he takes you to court and established paternity he has no rights. So stop talking to him. He never has to be involved if you do not want child support. If you file for any sort of gov't assistance though you will have to file child support, he...

I also suggest you get a job and find a way to support yourself. It is not a good idea to depend on your husband and parents 100%.

Have you filed for divorce? Do that. If you have taken this man back before, DFS is obviously concerned. I would be filing for divorce and a restraining order. Where is their Dad? Who has the kids now?

If I were you, file for emergency custody and for this man to not be around this child anymore. He has no business spanking her. Do you have an attorney?

Dad does not have to allow mom to move the kids. Until a court order is in place they both have rights. However TX will still have jurisidction until she meets the residency requirements of NM. If Dad files in TX he can ask that the kids be returned. Does mom have a job? It sounds like neither...

However no woman should risk her child for you. She could lose custody. I am a mother to 2 small kids and no way would I risk something like this. I realize that not all labeled sex offenders are child predators, and that there is a stigma with being labeled a sex offender. But at the end of the...

The mother is nuts for being with you, IMO. Sorry if that sounded rude. She does risk losing her daughter. I can tell you if I was that childs Dad I would be making sure you were never around my child and if mom marries you, she faces serious trouble, even from social services. Dad should be...

If mom is going to defy a court order that is a good way to lose custody. Document everything and see if you can provide proof that she still intends to relocate. Did you ask for custody previously or did you just block the move?

He is Dad and he does have rights, so he does have the right to take you to court to establish paternity and visitation. Time to learn to deal with him. If you go on any sort of gov't assitance the state will make you file child support against him. Until he takes you to court he has no rights.

Stop listening to your ex, he is full of it. If he ever wants to take you to court to establish paternity he can always do that. You are free to file for child support but a DNA test will have to be done. I would just stop talking to this guy. If he wants to the baby then he has to go to court...