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I agrew, what difference does it make if the fathers family adopts if she does not want the baby? She does not get to call the shots here. If she is doing this just to get back at the baby's father she needs to think again and she cannot go through with a fraudulent adoption, she needs to...

You can actually go to court and ask to be appointed his power of attorney. Personally he is not in sound mind if he is willing to do this! You really need to talk to adult protective services or an attorney. Does he have a will?

I agree child support and visitation have nothing to do with each other and without a court order you dont have to pay. However any money you give her, give her as a check and make it child support. If paternity has been established you need to go to court and file for visitation.

Support is actually a form of contact, in most cases. Abandonment would not apply here since the father is supporting the child. So at this point you can continue taking the money and him have no realtionship or maybe if he knows that future support will stop, he might be willing to do this.

"I'm not sure about the laws in your state, or if this is federal statute, but in California I believe (don't quote me) if you avoid paying court-ordered childsupport you lose the right to see your child. " NOT TRUE. Child support and visitation are totally seperate. Since tax payers have...

If you only made 9k last year, you are underemployed. Most realtors now have a really hard time making a living doing it full time and most have to take on second jobs. I do not know what the guidelines are for your state but it is not unusual for them to calculate your full earnings potential...

I would ask that the child talk to the judge privately.

I agree with Gail. You had the child out of wedlock so not being married has little to do with anything. Dad has the right to stop future moves. Why would you want to keep moving from county to county anyways? Geographic restrictions are very common, get used to it because the father does have...

The fact she was never married has little to do with anything. She still had the kids regardless and so many couples are doing this, marriage is not a requirement for the dad to have any rights. If paternity has been established, then Dad has rights until a court order says otherwise. She can...

What proof are you submitting that your salary is going down? Do you have several pay stubs or a W2 from 2009 that reflect the decrease? Bank statements? Just an FYI you may have to work at the lower pay for a few months before you build up significant proof.

Since mom violated the court order, file for custody. I think chances are good that you'll get it but you will get nothing if you do not take her to court. What do you have to lose? nothing. Mom now is going to have to hire an attorney. She could be forced to move back with the child. you have...

So mom wants money for you to have contact with the child? How nice. Was paternity ever established? Figure out if you want visitation or not. If you do you have to file in court and the state where she is likely has jurisdiction. You may have to hire an attorney. This could be a costly process...

You need to see an attorney to do this right. A father needs to be identified or at least an attempt made. This can be done via publication. The mother likely knows who the father is, she just doesn't want to reveal.

Are you sure you are even the father of this child? I would do a DNA test so you know for sure. You need to file for custody, what is keeping you? See an attorney.

The Dad's rights trump yours. You have no rights here whatsoever and Dad should not have to see his son less because mom wants to move out of state. Dad has a good chance of securing custody in this instance, especially since there appears to be a geographic restriction in the order. So now you...

"Six month residency is usually the cut off. If the child has lived somewhere else for longer than that, the TX window may have closed. " Not true. If there is a court order out of TEXAS then TEXAS retains jurisdiction in most cases. Jurisdiction does not follow the child if one state...

You cannot keep the father of your child anonymous once you depend on tax payers to support it. I have no idea how a court is going to react but I imagine yes they could stop her cash assistance at least, if she cannot identify him.

Why don't you file contempt and or custody? You are totally wrong about assuming moms always get custody. Mom cannot move the child out of state if you have a court order. Since you know she is not following it, what nakes you think she will honor anything she tells you? This is your child. Do...

She didn't really take responsibility, she is having tax payers support the kid. How a judge handles this is up to him/her. Out here in AZ a prostitute was on state assistance and the father of her kid was a regular john. The judge made her identify him or she faced a fine of $100 a day. This is...

Yes you will have to ask for exclusive possestion of the house and have her evicted. She though technically owns the house too since you put her on the deed. You should not have put her on the deed if you did not remarry her. You need an attorney. You can use the ground that she will not be...