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First of all he needs to register for the putative fathers registrey if IL has one. It looks like they do, he needs to complete this form asap since she is due soon http://www.putativefather.org/father_registration.aspx He will need to establish paternity then seek visitation rights.

I agree if you were a man the courts would not care. You have to support your child just like if you had custody you would get support. CA does look at both parents incomes so his income was probably factored into it. Unless you can get him to agree to lower it I do not see why it should be...

You really have no right to expect child support at full from Dad but yet do not allow visits. You are being unreasonable and Dad has a right to take you to court for more visits, which he will likely get since now he is contacted is so limited. So stop being so concerned about money and...

Some of what you metioned is totally irrelevant. The legal standard to parent is very low so you would have to prove he is neglectful. You can certainly bring this up in court but have you talked to him about it? Do not talk to the girlfriend at all. Also he does not have to obey every one of...

Apparantly there is an order outstanding from TN, not CA. If the orig order was done out of TN and they did not transfer it to CA then it is possible you have an arrears with TN one so you need to call them. Yes they7 can levy your bank acct.

Technically he is not the responsible party..unless he brought the child in to each visit. The parent who brings the child in is the responsible party. The Dr's office should bill you. You can ask that they work wqith you on this but either you or Dad need to pay.

You probably will not find an attorney on here you really need to call around. I doubt one will take this pro bono. If you have any equity in the house you might be able to pay attorney out of that. You might be able to file contempt orders on your own. Your ex cannot just deduct the spousal...

He needs to file a contempt claim in family court. She probably cannot do this.

You need to see an attorney and get this done right. She has to know who the father is because she is going to have to have him terminate rights. You might have to put a notice in a publication. Until the courts give you some sort of guardianship or custody you have no rights to this child.

You really need an attorney, you CANNOT afford not to have one. It sounds like you need one in NY. Your big mistake here is allowing mom to move to NY and not filing anything in FL before NY had jurisdiction. Mom cannot do anything without your permission.Ii would call around to an attorney in...

Here is my 2 cents. You need to talk to an attornay but you need to file for divorce and keep your kids way from this violence. You can stay there sure, but is it a good idea? QWhere is the Dad of the 10 yr old? Do you think it is a good idea to insist on staying in that house when it is...

All day without a diaper change is clear neglect. i think you need to call CPS so they can go out and inspect the home. They may assign them a parent aid. I know alot of people are defensive of mentally ill but if neither parent really knows what is going on, this child is at risk to...

Actually to be honest here, you have been some bad choices. You drive drunk with your baby in the car and you have a with a boyfriend who is a felon. You do understand that this cannot possibly help your case right? His background may come into play here because overal it seems you do not make...

It does not matter if the dogs are your sons, they are an unecessary expense. Even though you did not state this to the judge, it is obvious you want the judge to consider this expense. You have them, you pay for them. I'm not to be rude but based on what you have posted, it's no surprise the...

I would NOT do a quit claim because it does not remove you from the mortgage. NO WAY. If the house is upside down you may have to try and do a short sale but with seconds, that gets sticky.

You probably are entitled to some alimony yes. Your wife probably does not have the legal right to lock you out of the house. You need to grow a backbone to her and see an attorney. If she has been the primary breadwinner the you might get some alimony. NY is not a community property state, so...

I am in AZ and what you are being told is absolutely correct. Dad cannot dispute paternity 13 years later and if he had any doubts the kids were his he should have requested a DNA test a long time ago. YHou cannot do anything, this is between Dad and his ex and if mom was on any sort of...

You generally have to prove a 10% or more income change. What has hurt you is you have mention a few thing the ex is not responsible for. It sounds like you are just trying to squeeze something out of him, that is why the judge declined your request. Why is he reponsible for your dogs? That...

The ex is not responsible for your cost of living increases. That is what your child support is for.

Ok the main question is, why are your rights being severed? Who has the kids now? Are the wards of the state? You need an attorney in AZ to sort this out but why would you want to terminate your rights to the kids unless you have no relationship with them? Who is adopting the kids?