I feel you!
I can completely say I know how you feel. The bad news is you have a tough road ahead.It is really hard to deem a mother unfit. You have to have lots of strong evidence against her and even then they will more than likely give her a slap on the wrist and ya'll could possible get...
My husband has a child by another women, she is not cooperating with us on visitation. She is ignorant( as in unlearned) of legal phrases and actions and refuses to sign a visitation contract because she cannot understand it, will not take our word for it, and cannot afford a lawyer. I honestly...
I think?
I'm not sure about there, but I believe you need to get a lawyer and adopt the baby. Then he will be given the chance to give up his rights, the baby will legally be yours,and will have your last name. You are right about the signed paper, that is not legal. This cannot be done...