You were answered by both Red and I. Red answered you in-depth and very politely. I will admit I was a bit snarky. But still factual.
Have a consult w/ a divorce attorney or 5 to learn your rights and get things rolling.
Yes Judge, I understand that Japan started this war and brought the horrifying end upon themselves. I know that my Dad was stationed in the pacific and it is likely I wouldn't be here talking to you if it weren't for the bombs.
That said, I will still pray that this never happens again. War is...
How old are the children? Do you have a relationship and see them often? It is unlikely you would be able to disestablish paternity if that is your end goal.
Why is it that you or your wife hasn't filed for divorce?