To MorgansDaddy: Her father has no idea she even exists. And her mother has already agreed that I can have her. We are meeting with my lawyer next Monday to get everything in order.
I'll do that. Good thing today is Monday. It's like a whole new fresh start on my life. I get to get started on all of this 'fun' stuff at 9am. I had better go get my niece and bring her over here and then get some sleep. I've got a busy day today.
I don't know if I would qualify or not. I didn't realize there were financial requirements. Hmm. I suppose I will take your advice and file just to see if they can use his friends to find him. If nothing, well, I suppose I just might have to hire a PI. Thanks everyone for all the great advice!
He wants to adopt my son VERY badly. Because he wants all the children to have the same last name. He gets a little angry when people at my son's school ask where his father is because he sees himself as our children's only father. My husband has been there since the very day that my son's...
I loved the advice. She called because Em is up at 2am crying that she wants her princess bed and my sister's boyfriend is trying to sleep because he has to get up at 1pm tomorrow.
No sores or twitches or rotting teeth or anything that I've noticed. The boyfriend is an alcoholic though and I'm sure that played a part in it, not to mention his constant smoking cigarettes too. They only took a few rings that, all together, would have got them maybe $50.
I really do appreciate everything you've told me. You're right, it's not what I wanted to hear. But, at least, it's the truth. I didn't mean to imply that I am the only one she calls 'mom'. However my husband is the only one she calls 'dad' as he is the only father figure that has ever been in...
To Army Judge: No, I am not illegal. I was born right here in the states and I have the documentation to prove it. I don't know if he has any criminal record. The only thing he might have is: in 2008, he hit another car with his, the other driver was badly injured. Our mutual friend told me...
The only reason I struggle financially is because I do not like to allow my husband to pay for things my child with another man needs. I pay for those myself. Together, he and I can support all three children. And, if I were to allow it, he could easily cover my son's medical costs. However, I...
To Proserpina: We never told her to call us mom and daddy, she sees our children do it. She still calls her mother 'mom', but she also calls my mother 'mom'.
To Army Judge: We already know that my sister and her boyfriend use drugs. They purchase pot regularly with his 'paycheck'. Mostly for...
That wasn't the answer I was hoping for. I just want what's best for that baby. She is only 3 1/2 and doesn't understand why she's never with her mother.
My niece was born when her mother was only 15. As soon as she was born, her mother went back to her pre-baby lifestyle of sleeping around and my mother and I have been raising said baby between us her whole life. Em lives with her mother because her mother lives with our mother. Em is constantly...
For the 2 years we were together he gave me a false last name. I only found this out because of his friends and coworkers. He used a false name to work, gave me a false name, fathered my child and then just stopped coming around. My son has only seen him 3 times in his entire life, none of which...