I put wrote in quotes because we have no way of knowing who wrote the instructions. They did sign the instructions, but I don't have any way of of proving which one of them, if either, wrote them out.
There is no will. They "wrote" instructions for me and left them in the bank vault thinking that I would have the authority to carry out those wishes. I told them on several occasions that they needed to have their will signed, witnessed, and notarized, but they thought it was taken care of. I...
A little background:
15 years ago my aunt and uncle made me their Executor of Estate, added me as an authorized signatory on all of their accounts, made me the POD on the accounts, and added my name as someone who could access their safe deposit box.
My aunt is in the nursing home with end stage...