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- New Jersey
I've been seeing this woman for two years during the last several months in the relationship she fell on to hard times. So, I loaned her money and she was suppose to reimburse me. I also have lots of information on her over the years. Her birthday, her then current and past addresses, her parents contact information, and her aunt information as well. I even have her resume since I printed it out for her as her printer wasn't working. Her current phone number is still active if that means anything. She just refuse to answer.
Well, the money I loaned her wasn't enough, she said she needed more money in an emergency. So, when I said no, she stole it from me and almost damage personal property. I went to the police to report what happened and they calim the matter is civil.
I had everything I needed to go to court in NJ. Then I found out she moved to California and everything went to a screeching hault. She left a voicemail apologizing to me and that was it. After that I just tried to forget about everything.
If I file in NJ and hire a skip tracer and they do find her. Do I still present my case if she doesnt' appear? I don't think she will fly back, I have a promissory note. I didn't contact her parents. From what I piece together they went their seperate ways giving up on her but talk to her from time to time. I don't think her parents or aunt will provide her address for me to sue her. I thought about telling them what happend but I don[t think that will solve anything. And those are her real relatives.
If I file in NJ and a skip tracer can find her, I go to court and present my case. However I do not believe she will bother to show up. Obviously, I will present what I have but how would I go about collecting?
Well, the money I loaned her wasn't enough, she said she needed more money in an emergency. So, when I said no, she stole it from me and almost damage personal property. I went to the police to report what happened and they calim the matter is civil.
I had everything I needed to go to court in NJ. Then I found out she moved to California and everything went to a screeching hault. She left a voicemail apologizing to me and that was it. After that I just tried to forget about everything.
If I file in NJ and hire a skip tracer and they do find her. Do I still present my case if she doesnt' appear? I don't think she will fly back, I have a promissory note. I didn't contact her parents. From what I piece together they went their seperate ways giving up on her but talk to her from time to time. I don't think her parents or aunt will provide her address for me to sue her. I thought about telling them what happend but I don[t think that will solve anything. And those are her real relatives.
If I file in NJ and a skip tracer can find her, I go to court and present my case. However I do not believe she will bother to show up. Obviously, I will present what I have but how would I go about collecting?
