re=baby fingers, thanks for you reply. yes, all the DVDS can be proven 100% ours. yet, wal-fart's still out for blood. my wife's immigration atty referred a good criminal atty. we also found a toll free advice line for any legal questions $35 no time or question limit from a certified license atty in our state & county. all said we're gonna be ok, especially after the next court battle...thanks again for replying...