Sex Crimes, Sex Offenders Vandalism and emotional abuse question

[hurtinNY]

Dear friends. I dated someone who seemed perfect for the first five weeks. We were falling in love. Then he started leaving porn on at all hours, calling me threatening suicide, verbally abusing and humiliating me, driving drunk, refusing to wear a condom and more. I should have ran, but I was worried about him and wanted to help him. Then he stopped contacting me. I kept asking for my posessions (wirth at minimum $300) I had left at his house. I asked him to give me a time where he would leave them on his front porch and I would pick him up without him there so we wouldn't need to see each other. He happened to be there and my stuff was not on the porch. He invited me in to talk, ended up kissing me, telling me he was trying so hard not to be in love with me...and somehow we ended up having sex. A week later he had a new girlfriend and I was so deeply confused and hurt that I sprayed WD-40 on their cars. Obviously that was VERY wrong of me and I checked myself into a mental institution. I'm better and, luckily, they decided not to press charges. My question is...can they change their minds and press charges? I know that his new girlfriend has no idea he has been arrested for domestic violence, has a restraining order against him from the girlfriend before me, taped a sex act with a woman and mailed it to his "then" wife a year ago...and much more. But, the fact remains that he was cruel, but did nothing technically illegal. What I did was, unfortunately, illegal. I can't believe I did that. Thank you for your advice.

 

[jharris352]

They technically can, but no one is going to prosecute you for it. Don't worry. Stay out of soap opera relationships. Stay away from him.