kcchiefette
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OK, so I started seeing this 18 year old. I was 14, but I fell for his charm. I was extremely frightened when we first had sex, pushing his hand away but he carried on regardless, hovering above me, so I couldn't move. I felt over powered. Since then, sex had been a regular occurance like that, until perhaps the last 3 months of the relationship. The relationship lasted 7 months altogether.
He was aware it was illegal. He told me he knew of somebody who was in jail as they were 17, and the other girl was 16. (legal age of consent is 17 over here). He said it didn't worry him as he trusted I wouldn't do that. I thought I loved him, so I reassured him I wouldn't.
He always told me withdrawing, never got you pregnant, he carried on regardless anyway, putting me on the spot, making me feel so embarrassed I just gave in to having unprotected sex. We never went anywhere like ordinary couples, all he wanted was sex. We had sex around 3 times a night when I was around and about 15 times a week, altogether. I started to get ill, getting stomach cramps and really bad butterflies anytime he came near me. I was dreading it, but even though I was ill, he continued pressuring me for sex.
I told him a week before he dumped me that I thought I was pregnant (when I really knew I WAS). He dumped me saying, I was too immature, too young and the age bothered him. It was only then I discovered how vile he really was. He previously got an ex pregnant and she got an abortion, he was nearly 17, she was nearly 16. I was so furied when I found this out, this was about a week before we split up. After we split up I found out he had cheated on me with two hookers in Amsterdam during his holiday.
A week after he dumped me, I had crippling stomach pains and very heavy bleeding. I got rushed to hospital where they confirmed I had a miscarriage. I rang him on the phone, he didn't seem bothered, he said he was more scared that he was going to jail than anything else. I was so angry I hung up the phone.
It took about a month for me to turn round and ask to see the police. He got a new girlfriend, rubbed it in my face, grinned and got his brother to harrass me over the Internet and try and emotionally hurt me by saying I was splitting up his family if I reported this to the police. It got me down so badly, I told my mum and the police were rung straight away.
I've got a counselor, and I've got severe depression and anxiety since this happened. I am living in a constant fear. I've had my medical assessment done, my video interview and my statements, all that's left is his arrest.
All I'm wondering is, what could I be expecting as the outcome of this?
He was aware it was illegal. He told me he knew of somebody who was in jail as they were 17, and the other girl was 16. (legal age of consent is 17 over here). He said it didn't worry him as he trusted I wouldn't do that. I thought I loved him, so I reassured him I wouldn't.
He always told me withdrawing, never got you pregnant, he carried on regardless anyway, putting me on the spot, making me feel so embarrassed I just gave in to having unprotected sex. We never went anywhere like ordinary couples, all he wanted was sex. We had sex around 3 times a night when I was around and about 15 times a week, altogether. I started to get ill, getting stomach cramps and really bad butterflies anytime he came near me. I was dreading it, but even though I was ill, he continued pressuring me for sex.
I told him a week before he dumped me that I thought I was pregnant (when I really knew I WAS). He dumped me saying, I was too immature, too young and the age bothered him. It was only then I discovered how vile he really was. He previously got an ex pregnant and she got an abortion, he was nearly 17, she was nearly 16. I was so furied when I found this out, this was about a week before we split up. After we split up I found out he had cheated on me with two hookers in Amsterdam during his holiday.
A week after he dumped me, I had crippling stomach pains and very heavy bleeding. I got rushed to hospital where they confirmed I had a miscarriage. I rang him on the phone, he didn't seem bothered, he said he was more scared that he was going to jail than anything else. I was so angry I hung up the phone.
It took about a month for me to turn round and ask to see the police. He got a new girlfriend, rubbed it in my face, grinned and got his brother to harrass me over the Internet and try and emotionally hurt me by saying I was splitting up his family if I reported this to the police. It got me down so badly, I told my mum and the police were rung straight away.
I've got a counselor, and I've got severe depression and anxiety since this happened. I am living in a constant fear. I've had my medical assessment done, my video interview and my statements, all that's left is his arrest.
All I'm wondering is, what could I be expecting as the outcome of this?
