My husband and I have been seperated since 2001. He is retired from State Corrections the state says I am no longer qualified to receive benefits as a spouse. They dropped me from our health insurance. My husband has tried to fight it for me but to no avail. Is this even legal? I had to move to Ct. for a good paying job its a 5 year contract, does this matter? When did the state get to say when a couple should call it quits? I'm really mad! He made me promise as long as he keeps me with health ins. I wouldn't touch his (our) pension. We were living together for 21 years before he left. Most of them were during the pension building years I stayed home with the kids he worked for our retirement. I got the bad end of the deal.