- Jurisdiction
- New York
Time/ Location: About 8:40p, New Years Eve, in upstate New York.
Upon arrival to our cabin upstate, NY...we have the following folks staying around us.
A girl, JANE 26 whose older brother JOHN is married to BETTY. BETTY is friends with my gf, ANN
John has been cheating on Betty with another girl who he works with. They are in the middle of a huge disagreement and divorce is on the menu. I found this out, because I had actually kissed Jane in an intoxicated state the second night
I told this to my gf Ann who is obviously not happy but we communicated to each other and still stayed with each other without a fight or argument.
Betty with her daughter has learned about the infidelity and was communicating with her mother in law and letting her know about what is going on with her husband, John and what is about to happen considering divorce.
John was highly intoxicated and was staying with his mistress and his sister/ friend on the same grounds. At dinner around 8p Jane had been upset that Betty had contacted her mother about the situation and approaches both Betty and Ann by yelling aggressively. Jane also decides to boast and brag about kissing me, and that "I have picked her over anyone else. " Jane gets into a physical altercation with both Betty and Ann in which she grabs Anns hair and Ann grabs Janes hair. A Huge clump of hair (like my3 fingers combined) was pulled from Janes head during the altercation which lasted minutes. Ann also sustained small scratches on her face and hands.
No one had called the police that night. The issue was really the divorce about to happen and I stupidly kissed a girl that was an immature and naive person to stick her face into her sister in laws business and decide to pick a fight with her friend as well in which she ended up with the hair pulled.
Now the brother John contacted Ann to demand that she pay for damages or a police report will be filed. I am on Ann's side and she was defending herself.
Should Ann file a police report about the incident with the authorities: at all? upstate where it happened? or in NJ, where she lives.
I would appreciate any advice as I Want to make sure Ann will be alright. I told her to take pictures of her injuries but at this point because it is after the fact....is it all heresay?
Upon arrival to our cabin upstate, NY...we have the following folks staying around us.
A girl, JANE 26 whose older brother JOHN is married to BETTY. BETTY is friends with my gf, ANN
John has been cheating on Betty with another girl who he works with. They are in the middle of a huge disagreement and divorce is on the menu. I found this out, because I had actually kissed Jane in an intoxicated state the second night
I told this to my gf Ann who is obviously not happy but we communicated to each other and still stayed with each other without a fight or argument.
Betty with her daughter has learned about the infidelity and was communicating with her mother in law and letting her know about what is going on with her husband, John and what is about to happen considering divorce.
John was highly intoxicated and was staying with his mistress and his sister/ friend on the same grounds. At dinner around 8p Jane had been upset that Betty had contacted her mother about the situation and approaches both Betty and Ann by yelling aggressively. Jane also decides to boast and brag about kissing me, and that "I have picked her over anyone else. " Jane gets into a physical altercation with both Betty and Ann in which she grabs Anns hair and Ann grabs Janes hair. A Huge clump of hair (like my3 fingers combined) was pulled from Janes head during the altercation which lasted minutes. Ann also sustained small scratches on her face and hands.
No one had called the police that night. The issue was really the divorce about to happen and I stupidly kissed a girl that was an immature and naive person to stick her face into her sister in laws business and decide to pick a fight with her friend as well in which she ended up with the hair pulled.
Now the brother John contacted Ann to demand that she pay for damages or a police report will be filed. I am on Ann's side and she was defending herself.
Should Ann file a police report about the incident with the authorities: at all? upstate where it happened? or in NJ, where she lives.
I would appreciate any advice as I Want to make sure Ann will be alright. I told her to take pictures of her injuries but at this point because it is after the fact....is it all heresay?