Sexual misconduct - how many counts? Sex Crimes, Sex Offenders

In New York State a person was charged with sexual misconduct for having innercourse with a underage person. The victim told the police that they had been having sex for the past year, so they have had several interactions. Are the police obligated to charge the person with more than one count of sexual misconduct? As the victims parent can I make this request?

The judge has refused to issue a stay away order to the victim because the woman who committed the crime is now pregnat as a result of the crime and the judge feels the victim should "step up and assit the pregnat woman now that she is about to have his child". I am looking for a law that I can refer to in talking with the DA's office that will force them to issue the stay away order.