Secludion to PTSD, to attempted coverup

Sorry, too long, didn't read it all. Anything that takes that long to explain is complicated enough to require the services of an attorney.

If you can't get an attorney to take the case, then I suggest counselling for you and your son so you can deal with the emotional issues and get on with your life.

 

Did you report this incident to Child Protective Services at the time? Please clarify "Family Service Worker? Whom does she work for? What is her job at the school? What kind of school is this ...public? private? How old was your child at the time?

 

How old was Junior at the time?

 

also what type of school was this?

 

I don't understand why you feel an IEP would be appropriate...at all.

 

Is your son in therapy/seeing a psychologist? It seems like he needs to learn coping skills. And, if you haven't done so, place him in a new school. Although one would hope this would have been an immediate action on your part.

 

Whose kid is at issue here? Her son or your son?

So..."the teacher" is you?

Your post is incredibly vague, and you didn't ask a question. Please elaborate as to exactly what happened. Unless you do that, all anyone here can recommend is that you discuss the matter with the teacher and the principal.

So...this is about something that occurred 4 years ago?

 

Being "secluded in the bathroom" is much different than being "drugged and thrown into a bathroom".

If that's what occurred, than the police should have been involved at the time and I have serious doubts that criminal charges wouldn't have been filed.

While I wish you the best of luck, I don't believe an internet forum is going to be able to help you.

 

I'm still trying to work out why the Social Worker would approach OP about Social Worker's son...

 

Post #1: "I was called daily to pick him up from school and not provided with alternative learning environments or other options. The school kept me on the waiting list to receive an IEP for the entire school year."

Post #13: "If he had so much trouble leading to the incident indeed an IEP would have been requested. He was 4 at the time and had not had a diagnosis or any behaviors constituting an IEP at the time this took place."

Post #15: "... he was removed that day when I discovered he was detained in the bathroom. He has not been back and I have moved and put him into therapy since then."

Post #15: "He had no problems constituting an IEP or 504 plan at the time."

Also Post #15: "At 4 he was diagnosed with ADHD but not Autism yet."


In the original post, you state that the school had him on a waiting list for an IEP for an entire school year, yet in posts #13 and #15 you state that he had nothing that would tend to lead to a need for an IEP or accommodations under a 504 plan, even though you state (also in post 15), that he was diagnosed at age 4 with ADHD but not Autism YET.

You also state in post #15 that you removed him (permanently) from the school the day the you were made aware of the incident, so it's clear that you didn't wait for a year after it occurred.

There are inconsistencies in your account of the matter that make it difficult to really follow what's going on. I hesitate to comment on the cause of those inconsistencies and I will give you the benefit of the doubt when I say they are likely unintentional. You may wish to review the facts and timeline of your matter when you seek out professional legal help.

 

I'm still confused. As far as I can figure, four years ago (so roughly 2018), your son was drugged (with some unnamed drug(s)) by "teachers" (plural) and placed in a small bathroom (for some unstated reason). You said that "he was removed that day . . . [and] has not been back." I assume that means you unenrolled him at that school.

There's a bunch of other stuff that isn't really clear, but you still haven't asked a question. You told us that "they are using seclusion as the premises for him being detained," but that doesn't make any sense, and it's not clear who "they" are. You cited this as the reason for posting, but I'm not sure what to make of that.

If your child was drugged without authorization from you or a doctor whom you had authorized to treat your child, that's a crime that should have been reported to the police. It's not clear whether "plac[ing] [him] in a small bathroom" was in appropriate or not. In one of your more recent posts, you've got references to "children" (plural), but it's not clear why.

If you want to pursue a legal remedy against the school and/or one or more employees of the school, you should consult with a local attorney.