I would like to know why no one will answer any of my questions. One mother with similar difficulties talked to me, but not a single "legal" person bothered to reply to any of my posts. I understand that most people view those accused of child abuse as monsters, but many of those accused, including me, are simply that.... accused. It does not mean we are guilty or a monster. As someone who knows the system, you obviously know that many innocent people are accused every day. Some even spend many years in jail, or are even put to death by the state. Why would it be any different in the civil system? I do not understand why I have not been given the same consideration as any other person that posed a question here.