Posting or distribution of nake pictures

Hurtlady

Hurtlady

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Missouri
Ok my husband and brothers wife had an affair and she sent him nake picture, I of course plugged his phone to the computer and pulled everything they said and the picture off his phone which is in my phone plan, which all I was really doing was fixing a virus on his phone if I was (per say) to let this picture get out there. What kind of trouble could I get into. I lost my trucking business my family everything over this affair $63000 in debt filing bankruptcy?
Ty
 
I don't see you getting into trouble for the phone since you obviously had access to it with his consent, or lack of objection because it wasn't password protected and he didn't keep it from you.

As for posting the photo online or elsewhere, why bother? What good would it do you? The damage is already done? Posting it will only make you look stupid for not catching on to the affair early on.

Concentrate on getting divorced and putting your life back together.
 
I agree. What you choose to do with the photo won't likely result in any consequence unless you result to some form of blackmail. However, putting it out there doesn't help anything and would reflect poorly on you. You can take sufficient action without stooping that low.
 
At least be honest about the fact that you weren't just fixing a virus when you downloaded all this stuff from his phone onto your computer. Posting a naked picture online can cause you significant legal issues, even if you were to ultimately prevail, not to mention put you in a very poor light in the event of a divorce. Do yourself a favor and delete it. It doesn't change anything. You don't need your SIL's picture to divorce the dude, or try and repair the marriage.
 
Hurtlady said:
Ok my husband and brothers wife had an affair and she sent him nake picture, I of course plugged his phone to the computer and pulled everything they said and the picture off his phone which is in my phone plan, which all I was really doing was fixing a virus on his phone if I was (per say) to let this picture get out there. What kind of trouble could I get into. I lost my trucking business my family everything over this affair $63000 in debt filing bankruptcy?
Ty
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Why would you post the picture online? Do you feel you have nothing left to lose and want to embarrass her? Honestly it won't help you and it's just not worth it.

What you're thinking about doing is considered "revenge porn." Missouri doesn't have a law against it - yet. They had a bill come up in February this year. I don't think you fall under any of the laws they have currently about nude photos.

Just delete the photo and divorce the jerk. Hopefully your brother knows and he's divorcing his wife. Then let your husband and his wife go on their merry way together and end up doing the same thing to each other they did to you and your brother. Don't be petty. It's not worth it to waste your time on her or him. If you have kids, you're just going to make things worse on them and if she has kids on your nieces/nephews.

Divorce and move on with rebuilding your life.
 
Slow down!!!!! google "Revenge porn" also look into just how you got these even if not password protected. You do NOT have permission to or ownership to post these. Do you really want to go down that road? Dont let your anger rule over your intellect.
 
I promise you, if you do this, the one who will come off looking the worst to the rest of the world will be you. You won't be seen as the sympathetic party who's been wronged; you'll look like the small-minded witch-with-a-b who probably deserved what she got.

Is that really how you want to look to the rest of the world?
 
shrinkmaster said:
Slow down!!!!! google "Revenge porn" also look into just how you got these even if not password protected. You do NOT have permission to or ownership to post these. Do you really want to go down that road? Dont let your anger rule over your intellect.
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Missouri doesn't have one of these statutes. Without some level of blackmail I don't see any criminal liability. Perhaps there is another obscure statute, but not likely as this is a very modern issue.

Access to the spouse's phone would not likely be questioned.
 
shrinkmaster said:
Slow down!!!!! google "Revenge porn" also look into just how you got these even if not password protected. You do NOT have permission to or ownership to post these. Do you really want to go down that road? Dont let your anger rule over your intellect.
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Missouri doesn't have any laws yet about revenge porn. A bill was submitted in Feb 2017. That's all I found about it as I posted.
 
ElleMD said:
At least be honest about the fact that you weren't just fixing a virus when you downloaded all this stuff from his phone onto your computer. Posting a naked picture online can cause you significant legal issues, even if you were to ultimately prevail, not to mention put you in a very poor light in the event of a divorce. Do yourself a favor and delete it. It doesn't change anything. You don't need your SIL's picture to divorce the dude, or try and repair the marriage.
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Well let's be honest!!!!! Yes I was just fixing a virus on his phone the things I hate most is a lier, a cheater and a person that steals. So don't think u know me cause u don't. Just for ur information ( I don't have to explain myself ) his phone downloaded 150 application and cost me $301 plus the normal phone bill.
 
leslie82 said:
Why would you post the picture online? Do you feel you have nothing left to lose and want to embarrass her? Honestly it won't help you and it's just not worth it.

What you're thinking about doing is considered "revenge porn." Missouri doesn't have a law against it - yet. They had a bill come up in February this year. I don't think you fall under any of the laws they have currently about nude photos.

Just delete the photo and divorce the jerk. Hopefully your brother knows and he's divorcing his wife. Then let your husband and his wife go on their merry way together and end up doing the same thing to each other they did to you and your brother. Don't be petty. It's not worth it to waste your time on her or him. If you have kids, you're just going to make things worse on them and if she has kids on your nieces/nephews.

Divorce and move on with rebuilding your life.
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Yes my brother knows but he has 2 daughter's 5 year and a 2 year old. That thing has messed up 3 families in my family. My brother ask me to give that thing a chance n I did when I knew better. And I'm not being petty, I'm being a right down BITCH.
 
Porn has destroyed lots of once happy families, too.

Addictions can very often be deadly.
 
Hurtlady said:
Yes my brother knows but he has 2 daughter's 5 year and a 2 year old. That thing has messed up 3 families in my family. My brother ask me to give that thing a chance n I did when I knew better. And I'm not being petty, I'm being a right down BITCH.
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Look my ex husband cheated on me - he's cheated on every woman he's ever dated in his entire life. He cheated on his first wife. He also mooched a good 20,000 - 25000 out of me. He charged lots of porn on my credit card or these weird sex dating sites and would act like he didn't know how they got there. Duh. He maxed out my credit card using it not just for that but ATMs to get money for what I later found out was for drugs. I didn't know he was such a horrible meth addict when we got back together. He lied, cheated, manipulated, stole and abused me. Same with his first wife. He's used his parents. He stole from his dad and wrote 3000 worth of checks.

Yeah it sucks when you get cheated on. I know when I was pregnant and we weren't married but had really just gotten back together he cheated on me with this girl. I got her number off his phone and told her ass off. That was fucking petty. Because it takes two people to cheat. I should have left his ass then. I should have stayed away after the first time he hit me but I didn't. The heart leads us down the wrong path. And when we get hurt we act irrational.

There's no good that comes from posting her nude photos on the Internet. If Missouri passes their revenge porn law and you do this you could get arrested for it. It's not worth it. Also think about how that will affect your brother's kids with her. You don't think they won't get picked on about it once it gets around? Just let it go. Let it go. Get a divorce lawyer. Your brother hopefully is divorcing his wife. Think about the kids involved and don't sink to such a low level.

I very highly doubt the apps that were downloaded were due to a virus. You know how those charges were made. That's why you were on the phone.

It's your life so that's fine but if you have kids you need to think about how things will affect them. And your nieces/nephews.
 

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