my boyfriend has been living with me for 8 months rent and bill free. he is not on any lease here. he decided to cheat on me and got caught. since then he will not answer any of my calls to get him to come pick up his belongings and his cat. he has also stolen my camcorder and money from my bank account and borrowed 60 bucks the day before he got caught. how long do i hold his property before i can consider it abandoned and get rid of it or sell it to make back what im out. it has been a week already with no communication from him.