Anonymous27
New Member
- Jurisdiction
- Kentucky
I moved to Shelbyville, KY from Louisville, KY and wanted to establish a new PCP as I am a senior with multiple medical issues. After my first appointment, I was very dissatisfied with the doctor. I contacted office after appointment and they would not provide any contact info for me to get in touch with her. I found a way to email her through website for my chart. I admit I used a poor choice of words, but I was very upset, in pain, and did not feel like she had provided the care I needed. She kept wanting to schedule more appointments when on that appointment. I was thinking more copays, more money, and delaying my health issue's resolution. My money is very tight since I retired. I can barely walk, and I have hearing loss. One particular serious issue I mentioned kept getting waived off "due to time restraints, need to schedule another appointment. Anyway, I told her in the email to cancel the appointment and relayed my grievances and that I would find another doctor. Obviously, due to my poor choice of words she was insulted and that I questioned her motivation and abilities to care for me. Actually, she prescribed some medication that is known to cause side effects identical to the issue I had. She responded in length saying that she would not expect to see me again. A couple of days later after I had calmed down and reevaluated, I felt badly about having said the things that I did and offered a very sincere apology via email and asked if she would accept me back as a patient. I received a message from one of her staff that she would NOT accept be back as a patient. I responded,"Then, I will search for another physician that can care for my needs. Thank you." Since then, I have made an appointment with another physician in the area. My concern is from what I have read online is that you can be "blackballed" by a physician and your name ruined in the medical community, which limits your ability to receive care, whether it be for medications, surgery, or whatever. I am concerned that she may be vindictive and do this to me even though I apologized. I do not wish to go back to her at all, but I do not want any problems with future caregivers due to any vindictiveness she may have towards me. I had blood tests while I was there that I don't want to have to duplicate so I need those to go to the new provider, but I don't want any comments by her going to new provider. What should I do now?