I have a mother who is mentally ill and not seeking the correct treatment. She has abbused me for over 3 months now and I think I need to look for solutions. She often does not buy food for me and cancels doctor and surgury apointments as "punishment". She has memory problems that have resulted in her spending money without knowing it later. She is very violent at points and often cries over very simple things such as a pair of pants falling on the floor. She has pills in a drawer that she eats like candy. Please help.