- Jurisdiction
- Virginia
I'm unsure if I chose the correct field. This regards intentional affliction of emotional distress and sexual misconduct.
I met somebody online and we had a brief sexual relationship. He asked me a series of unique questions before we met, what's your favorite color, what's your biggest fear, tell me one secret even your parents don't know about you, etc... He is connected to a motivational speaker and the worlds foremost NLP gurus. He is a top salesman. I acted in ways out of character to me. I always deeply and immediately taken by this person in a very deep and profound way. ( The NLP things, I discovered later)
Cut to 5 years later and he contacted me out of the blue. He RE'd an email from 5 years ago. The last thing I said, I really liked you and I'm crying. He said I still think of you too. I was very nervous about meeting up with him. I knew that I would fall madly in love and was concerned that he was just looking for sex.
I made very clear that I wasn't looking for casual sex with him. He claimed that he wasn't looking for just sex or would have continued seeing me previously. He went into a long tirade of proclaiming to want a deep and serious relationship with me. I have the emails.
( An interesting point of note, in those 5 years he had romanced a woman in China leading her to believe that he wanted to get married. She became pregnant and although the child was born in China, he had him registered as a US citizen. Once he got the child over here, he dropped the mother. Refused to marry her and left her to fend for herself completely taking over the child)
This is a very long story and I'm unsure if anybody will even read this. I will enhance details if I receive any interest. In trying to make this as short as possible. I fell deeply and madly in love with him in the deepest way one could fall in love. We had a very sexually intense relationship where I was doing things that I was uncomfortable with. In the end he confessed that he was only after one thing- sex. I have the emails. He went out of his way and delighted in watching my helplessness and in breaking my heart in a million pieces.
That was 5 years ago. I have been emotionally devastated for 5 years, broken. This person defrauded me and purposely broke my heart and violated my body. I have been unable to date ever since. I have to force myself to care for myself, severe anxiety, suicidal and deep depression.
This is clearly rape by fraud and intentional affliction of emotional distress. It amazes me as if my heart ( and broken heart syndrome can actually kill) seems to have no value where the law is concerned?
I met somebody online and we had a brief sexual relationship. He asked me a series of unique questions before we met, what's your favorite color, what's your biggest fear, tell me one secret even your parents don't know about you, etc... He is connected to a motivational speaker and the worlds foremost NLP gurus. He is a top salesman. I acted in ways out of character to me. I always deeply and immediately taken by this person in a very deep and profound way. ( The NLP things, I discovered later)
Cut to 5 years later and he contacted me out of the blue. He RE'd an email from 5 years ago. The last thing I said, I really liked you and I'm crying. He said I still think of you too. I was very nervous about meeting up with him. I knew that I would fall madly in love and was concerned that he was just looking for sex.
I made very clear that I wasn't looking for casual sex with him. He claimed that he wasn't looking for just sex or would have continued seeing me previously. He went into a long tirade of proclaiming to want a deep and serious relationship with me. I have the emails.
( An interesting point of note, in those 5 years he had romanced a woman in China leading her to believe that he wanted to get married. She became pregnant and although the child was born in China, he had him registered as a US citizen. Once he got the child over here, he dropped the mother. Refused to marry her and left her to fend for herself completely taking over the child)
This is a very long story and I'm unsure if anybody will even read this. I will enhance details if I receive any interest. In trying to make this as short as possible. I fell deeply and madly in love with him in the deepest way one could fall in love. We had a very sexually intense relationship where I was doing things that I was uncomfortable with. In the end he confessed that he was only after one thing- sex. I have the emails. He went out of his way and delighted in watching my helplessness and in breaking my heart in a million pieces.
That was 5 years ago. I have been emotionally devastated for 5 years, broken. This person defrauded me and purposely broke my heart and violated my body. I have been unable to date ever since. I have to force myself to care for myself, severe anxiety, suicidal and deep depression.
This is clearly rape by fraud and intentional affliction of emotional distress. It amazes me as if my heart ( and broken heart syndrome can actually kill) seems to have no value where the law is concerned?
