I did a really stupid thing and lent a friend a large (to me) sum of money. I borrowed the money against my credit. My friend has now failed to make payments for the last few months. I did not get anything in writing from her regarding this loan. It was a verbal agreement. I do have my cancelled checks and could possibly get a letter (or something) from the employee at the place of credit stating that they were aware that I was borrowing the money for the friend. Do I have any legal recourse? Or should I just chalk it up to a lesson learned? 
