That is going to be a big problem. The competency standards for creating a trust are much more rigorous that the competency standards for creating a will.
The following article explains the difference. Show it to your Mom.
Mental Capacity - Trusts | Elder-Law-Advocate
There's more at the CA Probate Code Section 810-813:
CA Codes (prob:810-813)
I suggest consulting an attorney about all this because, if your Dad has periods of lucidity during which his competency is confirmed you will want that confirmation by independent unbiased witnesses, NOT family members. Unbiased witnesses are more easily found in an attorney's office who can participate in interviewing your Dad to confirm his competency at whatever time he makes the will or the trust.
There may also be a less costly way of of transferring their home to the 4 of you outside of probate.
Last year CA became one of the increasing number of states to allow a Revocable Transfer on Death real estate deed.
You can read about it in the CA Probate Code starting at Section 5600:
CALIFORNIA PROBATE CODE
Here's a brief guide:
New Transfer on Death Deed in California | A People's Choice
It would also be a good idea to do something about vehicles, too, if any are owned by your parents. Check out Transfer on Death vehicle titles at the DMV website:
11.070 Transfer on Death (TOD) Beneficiary
I have no idea but I suspect that the disposition of any property in a foreign country would be complicated by the laws of that country and you would have to engage an attorney in that country to advise your parents on how to arrange that. Might be wiser for your parents to sell that property now or it might cost you and your siblings a fortune to handle it after your parents' death.
Yes.
That can be done in a will or a trust, maybe even on the beneficiary deed.
She's wise to do something about it now. Probably should have addressed it long ago. You and your siblings should be addressing your own estate planning now, too, not later. My kid brother died at the age of
Thanks for the advise. As far as the dementia is concerned, my mom says she thinks the deed to their house reads my dad's name-or-her name, not my dad's name-and-her name. Is there a difference in the two wordings of and,or...or? My husband and I are diffidently going to start working on ours. Especially considering we have kids, but not any together.
1 a couple of years ago. Death can come as an unexpected unpleasant surprise at any time and if you haven't planned for it, you don't get extra time to do so.