My 3 year old son and I moved into a condo about a month ago. The condo was recently "flipped" and now has hardwood floors and a tiled kitchen. Before we moved in, the condo was vacant for a few months. The neighbor directly above us has been downright nasty since move in. On the night we moved in, my boyfriend and my friend were outside on the patio at about 10:30 pm smoking a cigarette, having a normal conversation. She came out onto her patio and yelled at them telling them "it was late and they should just go to bed". Two weekends ago, we came home after going to lunch on a Saturday, and there was a note on our door about how I needed to have my child stop running, jumping or stomping, especially in the mornings, because it was waking her up (although she didn't leave her name or condo number on the note) I informed my landlords, and they contacted the HOA, just to make a note of the incident. This past weekend, we arrived home on Sunday after being gone most of the day, and there was another note on the door telling me to have my child stop playing in the mornings. So I went upstairs and confronted her about the notes, and she says she just doesn't understand why my child has to play in the mornings. She would like for him to be quiet until 10 am so she can sleep. And she said "if he really has that much energy in the mornings, take him to the park or something-or have him play video games." We live in Colorado, and it is about 30 degrees most mornings--so there is no way I am taking him to a park from 8 am when he wakes up until 10 am so she can sleep. My landlords and I called the police and filed a report, but the officer said that the notes are not harassment because she isn't threatening us---does anyone know if this is true? Also, what can I do about this? My child is 3 years old, and he is going to run and play during all waking hours, that is what children do! My landlords are on my side and very sympathetic about the situation. We are quiet people, I am a full time student, single mom, and have a full time job--we go to bed early, don't throw parties, etc....and my son is not loud, he is just a normal child! Ideas?